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I hate people which have babies just for fun, I think a human life is too valuable and babies should be planned. A relative recently got pregnant without planning it. I hate her, dont people realise they need loads of money to give babies a nice life? Is it normal I hate people being so irresponsable when having babies?
Most births aren't planned; my bro was planned and I was an accident, or a surprise as my parents call it.
I see what you're getting at though..you mean people who just have babies for the fun of it and aren't serious about raising them. I agree, I don't like that either.
God damn those men impregnating the poor women!
Personally, I think women are responsible mostly for this. Women should be taking care of their bodies so they don't fall pregnant.
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I think women should be given the blame for this happening because they should be looking after "their" bodies. Do you know how pathetic it sounds that a man has to wea protection so "She" doesn't fall pregnant? So males have a responsibility to look after women there? Pathetic, truelly.
Men have responsibility over "her" body, yet no choice in the outcome. Great one, society, truelly...
If that's the case, they deserve half the choice aswell. It is the woma's body that is affected. If "She" doesn't want to go through a certain process "she" has to look after "her" body.
Your logic here is that it's a resteraunt's responsibility to make sure the customer doesn't order anything they're allergic to, and if the customer does, it is the resteraunt's fault for not making it their responsibility for the customer's choices and health, even when it is the customer's responsibility to not order something that has what ever it is they're allregic to in it.
i dont understand the restaurant part, what i meant is if he doesnt want her to get pregnant he should be careful with his sperm, and if she doesnt want to get pregnant she should be careful too, she is more physically affected so she has more say
The restaraint is an example. The woman went to the restaraunt (sex), she was allergic (capable of pregnancy), so in order to not have any changes in health such as an alergic reaction (pregnancy), it is "her" responsibility to order anything that puts her health in a different way (just like empregnating). It is not the restaraunt's responsibility (the man in this example) to make sure she doesn't oder anything she is allergic to (get pregnant).
Well that's not the case. By that you are implying the man has to make sure "she" dosn't get pregnant, so that the men have a responsibility over what happens to "her"...So males have the responsibility of female health? Yet when it comes to the next stage, they have no choice?
It is "her" body. If she doesn't want to get pregnant, then she says no to sex or makes him wear protecionbefore sex, or uses protection herself. If she doesn't do that, she is putting her body at risk of things she knows could happen and had every option in the book to prevent it from happening to "her" body.
It is "her" body, so "her" body is "her" responsibility.
The same example could be held here. Someone keeps engaging in ordering and eating fast food. They get fat to the point of health risk. They then say "it's not my fault, it's their fault for making the food I ate fatty". "It is their responsibility to make something that tastes good healthy, it is not my responsibility to keep my body healthy".
She is physically affected, so she gets more choice?
Same thing. She is physically affected, so she has more responsibility.
his is the problem, you seem to think that someone should have full choice of their "actions", yet ther responsibility of the choices that can effect her body shouldn't be all hers to bare.
It is "her" body, "her" choice, "her" responsibility". If she doesn't want to get pregnant, then she makes sure she can't get pregnant to look after "her" body. How is it that your logic here is that it's "Her" body, "not" his choice, "his" responsibility.
So he has no choice, it's not his body, yet he has to share the responsibility of her not being able to look after her body...
Also, I never said the woman should never have choice over abortion or having the child, I have always said that he should have the choice to be or not to be a father, not a choice of if the child should be born or not. So all he gets to choose is "his" role, not hers or if the child will be born. She would get full choice of the child's life, just not the man's life or role.
I agree if a woman does not want to get pregnant she should be responsible for the birth control or not be having sex in the first place if she has to rely on her sex partner to not get her pregnant.
I'm scared about the future and how it's gonna be for me like. I'm afraid of it going to happen. You are totally normal!
all i know is if man doesnt love his child we may as well live in a jungle, if woman doesnt love her child we may as well live in hell
Im kinda the same, I hate when Teens have babies like thouse shows 16 and pregant, and teen mom how pathedic,