Is it normal i hate orgasming?

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I'm 21 and absolutely hate sex. I hate orgasms, it rattles my whole body and is way too intense for me to handle. I won't even get my ears pierced become I'm so sensitive to pain/sensation. Before I used to handle it okay, as a teen with teen guys, they don't really... know what they're doing. So I didn't have to worry about climaxing. My current boyfriend who I've been with for a year is an absolute sweetheart, he's very understanding and always puts my feelings before his, but I still feel so guilty that I can't really satisfy him in the sex department.

He makes me come so quick and I immediately make him stop right before I go over. We fuck, I get close to climaxing, I make him stop, I wait a minute, then let him go again. We do this like six to ten times before he comes. I know it has to be brutal for him, and I can't believe he puts up with it, but it's the only way I can have sex. I love him very much, I just hate hate hate stimulation.

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  • wigz
    7 years ago

    Some medications can cause difficult/impossible orgasm. You might want to try that. Offhand, I know it's common with some anti-depressants like Paxil, Celexa. Also fairly common with opiates but obviously that carries a high risk of addiction.

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  • CDmale4fem
    7 years ago

    Nothing from your childhood that might make you afraid of letting go and learning how to enjoy that euphoric feeling ? Good thing he loves you to not let him get you there. That's rough letting him get you that close and telling him to freeze. So if you don't want to orgasm why not just give him oral sex and be done with telling him to stop.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      I do give him oral, but I feel like sex is so intimate and special I want to share it with him, but I just hate the intense feeling from it. I love him immensely for his cooperation!

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