Is it normal i hate my mother-in-law?

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The hatred for her is eating me alive.

The thing is, she is nice to me, too nice to me. She insists I visit her as much as possible, she cooks for me, she makes sure everything is perfect and that's great but she's an alcoholic and she's making her 10 year old daughters into alcoholics as well. On top of that, she lets them watch R-rated films or TV shows on the TV downstairs through her Netflix account.

I am not even kidding but the last time I was there, I had to sit through an entire episode of some whacked TV show where a man was having an affair with his wife, ran to his mistresses place when her husband was gone. Then the woman took off all her clothes and he did the same and the two ten year olds are sat on the couch with me while the people on the TV started having intercourse and they were both talking about how romantic it was. Then after the intercourse seen, the woman's teenage daughter is seen in her room snorting cocaine.

I was SO uncomfortable that I asked them to turn it off but they wouldn't listen. My Mother-in-law told me they could watch it because she lets them be. So I had to sit there and endure it. Then she comes over with beers and hands them each a beer as well as myself. And when one of the girls finished her beer, their mother asked if they wanted another!

She actively encourages them to watch sex and drugs on the TV and drink alcohol and I seriously hate her for that. This happens every time I'm over there and you know Fifty Shades of Grey? About two weeks ago, one of the girls asked me if I'd like to watch it with her because she got it for free from some website on her laptop! I of course declined.

is it normal I really can't stand this woman? She also has tried to invite me to go bar-hoping with her but I decline.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Anonymously report her to child services.

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  • LadyOfDecay♡
    9 years ago

    I can't stand people who don't know how to parent their kids. True, I'm not a mother so I have no idea what it takes to be a good parent as far as actually raising a child goes, but I have a strong feeling that letting a kid do whatever they want is NOT the way to do it.

    Infact, I get annoyed when I see someone spoiling their child by buying them more than one luxury item at the grocery store. I see parents piling chocolates and chips and other sweets into the basket because the kid cries for it, and I want to scream.

    I think your sisters in law are going to turn out to be seriously twisted, if you ask me. I mean, all that sexual content they're exposed to cannot be healthy for 10 year olds to be watching. They might think its okay and try act out what they see on tv. I've seen a topic about something similar on Oprah once.

    I wouldn't call her on her parenting skills if I were you, though, as she's going to be in your life forever. If she wants to mess her daughters' lives up, that's unfortunately her descision to make. Think of it this way, you wouldn't want her trying to tell you how to raise your kid, would you?

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  • psychoticjester
    9 years ago

    Yeah that sounds like bad parenting, but no one can really tell anyone how to raise their kids. They can however call child protective services, if you chose to go that route...

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  • kelili
    9 years ago

    Really?

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