Is it normal i hate my mother?

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For as long as i can remember i have had issues with my mother. we have never gotten along, agreed on the same things or even liked the same things. recentally shes gotten worse and she literally shits on everything i do. i just got accepted to univirstiy (i did a victory lap for highschool) and when i told her she was happy right after i asked her "can you stop yelling at me now?" becuase thats all she god damn does. i have a boyfriend of a year and a half, she calls me a prostitute (i am not one.) she says im stupid ( im 18 and my short story is getting published in a writing magazine). she says ill never amount to anything. she tries to kick me out, i called the cops and they said she cant do that because im on the lease. later one she said i have to move out, when i agreed and said okay ill start looking for places she fucking flipped her shit and said "youre a bitch fuck you you just used me." i cant fucking win, my friends see it, my family see's it, the god damn police see it.

is it normal to hate her and just not give a fuck about her? like shes seriously dead to me but i dont know if i am allowed to feel like this bc shes my mom you know ?

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  • Ms.Dempsy
    7 years ago

    Look at it this way there were other options than keeping and raising you. * think think*

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  • walkingparadox
    7 years ago

    Okay here's the thing, my Mum was the same sort of when I was growing up ... I wasn't allowed to apply for Uni because they didn't think I'd be smart enough or do the right course and they made me feel like I couldn't do anything that I wanted to do because they literally said I'd be packing my bags and finding somewhere else to go if I applied ... that's a scary thought for an 18 year old. My advice to you is just play nice with her, her house, her rules sort of thing? But go to Uni meet great people and when it's the end or term or however it works you'll hopefully have some friends you'd consider getting a place with instead of going back to your Mum? You love your Mum she's your Mum but your your own person and I think when kids get to a certain age parents can get a bit emotional and seem bitter and stuff because there babies are all grown up!

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Its normal I can't stand either of my parents.

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Sounds like shes got issues of her own

    Insecurity issues it seems like.

    It seems like she doesnt feel that close to you, and thinks the worse of you, like somehow she thinks you're only using her.

    Insecurity for sure. You can either try to help her since she's your mother, or just do whatever you want.

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