Is it normal i hate my bf talking and being friends with girls?

Shit, checking his phone and stuff? Getting angry when he talks to other girls. Man, you're all kinds of crazy. Should have never taken him back after cheating. Derp.

No offense, but never in a million years, will I understand why somebody would take back a cheater. It's just pure proof that they don't love someone, even if the cheater themselves doesn't realize it. Its your choice of course, but if it gets any more out of hand, I would just dump that prick.

I agree with all the above comments, im time you will realise that the only reason you took him back is because deep down that's all you think that your worth. The sooner you realise that he doesn't actually love you and that your wasting your time the better, as one day you will find a kind man that will treat you with the love and respect you deserve, in the mean time your just wasting precious time with a looser :/

You shouldn't feel jealous at all. I think to some extent as you get older you put up with less but no you shouldn't feel like that or have to invade someone's privacy for reassurance. Its a normal feeling but that isn't a good relationship. You seriously need trust and should be happy not paranoid. Like the comment above, you're basically as bad as each other.

It's good. He has brought you down to his level and soon you two can have a long unhappy life together. Congratulations.

Let me guess, you took him back because you're lonely and afraid of being alone. In my humble opinion the best thing you can do for yourself is to face your fear and dump him. Sit in your feelings and embrace solitude. If you never feel pain you won't learn the lesson it's meant to teach you. Besides, you will feel better if you do the dumping instead of waiting for the cheating bastard to dump you. You already know he doesn't love you because people don't cheat on someone they love unless they're a raging sex addict and do you really wanna be with someone who might give you a disease? You can't trust him anymore as is evidenced by your issue with his having female friends and texting back and forth with them. For all you know he might either still be cheating or planning to cheat again. Next time try not to pick a guy who flirts so much and has a lot of female friends; those can be red flags!

Oh and one more thing. You said,"I have pretty much told him before you can't hangout with people if there are girls there and I'm not there." What makes you think he'll listen to your orders? Think of all the things your folks tell you not to do that you do anyway and maybe even feel more compelled to do because they told you not to those things. Do you really want a boyfriend you have to boss around and possibly spy on? Accept that you are powerless over this cheater and his flirtatious two timing ways and move on. Your self esteem will thank you.