Is it normal i hate my best friend so freaking much?

I'm sure at one tine you guys were best friends, right? Well I went throughthat. This really annoying girl started hanging around me in like...8th grade I think. I absolutely couldn't stand to be with her. Sooner or later, like in 11th grade, I found out what made her tick. For example, she HATED all the girls at our school that wore makeup and slutty clothes...you know, stereotypical sluts, so for about a week I dresses like that and acted like that. She asked me what had happened to me and I just totally went off on her, letting out everything I had been holding in for 4 years. It really helped and I insulted her alot so once I went back to being me she wouldn't even look at me. Maybe you should try that!

she is gonna murder like an obsessed fan.

She's jealous of you - that's certainly clear. With these kind of people, you can't just break off the friendship, I know this from personal experience.

What you'll have to do is talk to her about it, and when she starts talking about herself put your hand up and say clearly: "STOP." Talk about your feelings, and if she still overrides you, walk away. You need to be confident with her or she'll never take you seriously. =)

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I think the problem is probably you. I can't understand how a human being could have so much hatred for another, it just disgusts me.

Sad how you consider her your bestfriend. The length in when youve known a person does not consider a bf.

I had a bestfriend like this and we had been friends since 8th grade. It took until my wedding day to wake up to myself and stop being friends with her. I was sitting at my bridal table and I had to call and ask where she was, she was with her new boyfriend getting something to eat... It was a reception, there was food there!! She couldnt even be bothered being a good friend to me on my special day!! Your friend sounds selfish just like mine was. U are better off without her!!

Sounds like an annoying bitch.

Ew why are you friends with her, let alone best friends? It sounds like she just uses you to make herself sound better, like some sick self esteem booster. You should start hanging out with your other friends more.

If you hate her why is she your best friend??

say bitch please fuck off. or like a normal person say your a total control freak i like you but u gotta change or somethin on that line talk to her. and why are you friends with a bitch like that. or you could just punch her

Either start ignoring her and hanging around with your friends or deal with it.

That's the only way to be free of her. My apologies for being harsh but, this one's cut and dry.

And yes, silly, it's normal.

Why is she your best friend then? Sounds like a personal problem.

I do not miss being a teen.

I really don't understand how or why you habe made her your bestie. She isn't. You despise her. Not without some reason.

You could try and tell her how you feel in a BIG TALK sort of way. give her several things you need her to change - don't dump on or blast her. For example:
1) she needs to listen to you when you are talking
2) she must not belittle you
3) leave you alone when you are with other friends.

Give a few concrete examples. Keep it short & sweet & to the point. Don't get sidetracked by anything else.

Let her know that if she can't make an effort & change these items, then it is over between you. Don't get drawn into lengthy explanations or debates.

This is called: laying it on the line.

ummm well ask your self this why is she your best friend then??? that doesnt make sense just get a new best friend DUH!!!