Is it normal i hate dating?

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I'm the girl guys fall in love with, the one they dream of, the one they would do anything for blah, blah, blah...every time i get into a relationship the guy gets all super affectionate and clingy, texting me morning, noon and night, waiting for me outside my classes offering their jackets or to hold my books and I CANT STAND IT. i always feel obligated to spend most of my time with them when i dont want to or dont have time for it. im not an overly emotional or even affectionate person so all this attention and devotion freaks me out. what do you think?

i should be in an unemotional sex oriented relationship 16
other 12
i should suck it up and try very hard to enjoy it 2
i have horrible taste in men and should look for ones less clingy 8
i have severe emotional issues that would sabatoge any relationship 7
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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    How about carbon dating?

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    You don't owe anyone anything girl. Just say thank you or no thank you depending on the situation. You probably get a lot of attention because you're confident and it sounds like you're not really seeking anyone out. People tend to want what they can't have. On the other hand guys stay away from girls who are desperate in droves. Don't comprise yourself just to be nice. Be polite about it but wait for someone you actually see as an equal that you are attracted to.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    Ditto to Neuro. Boys wanting to cater to you comes with the territory. Learn to set boundaries, and do what's important for you.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Well if you want to date a jerk/asshole or someone that does not give a shit, then go find one and tell these decent guys that you're not interested.

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  • telly34
    11 years ago

    I am kind of the same way. I am the kind of person who values my "me" time and I don't like to be too smothered by anybody.

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  • BoryYuppie
    11 years ago

    Maybe it's because you hate couples and don't wanna be part of it!
    Or maybe you are Taylor Swift.

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  • ThisIsAnUsername
    11 years ago

    What about casual sex?

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    • DADNSCAL
      11 years ago

      Casual sex is just that. Nothing special, and risky too, today . Wait for that special guy to share intimacy. You'll appreciate it much more.

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  • RougeTheBat
    11 years ago

    With me if i can't imagine you as my future husband then i cut it off at the beginning.

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  • kingsleycrowne
    11 years ago

    wow and women wonder why chivalry died.
    There ya go.

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