Is it normal i hardly go out..

Well i have some freinds to go out with and everything, i just hate going out i get really self concious if people look at me and i stay in my bed room all day i even eat in my bedroom i don't like interacting with people but when i go out i have a good time id just rather stay at home i've had boyfreinds in the past i'm normal weight & theres nothing wrong with me but i feel really down all the time i'm just bored of everything.

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  • Indira

    That's how I used to be, after awhile I realized I really needed to go do stuff. I just forced myself to go out sometimes and I always felt better. For the most part, even now I stay home, but you should definitly make yourself sometimes.

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  • Monkeybutts

    Your a homebody. That is the name for it, "homebody". A homebody is someone who prefer to stay at home most of the time instead of going out. There are people on this earth who are not home body and is always going out and hate hate hate staying at home. This is something you want to take serious because if you know you are a homebody then you should date people who are homebodies too. Its nothing more annoying then being with someone who pretended they were someone who liked going out but really they are homebodies. Then your stuck at home all the time becuz ur lover doesn't never want to go out and now your miserable. I am both a homebody and someone who likes to go out. I love being at home and doing things at home, for years I was just solely a homebody. But after a while it gets boring and now I am more of a person who like to go on adventures and have fun outside of my home. Is your lover a homebody too? If not then you may want to look for someone who is more like you. So you wouldn't feel forced to be something that you are not or to do something that you don't want to do.

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  • imadragon

    I don't like to drink or go out and party, it's a waste of time and energy.

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  • WordWizard

    I only go out if I have friends to hang with.

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  • poy

    me too but i go out with my friend and do graffiti and went out with dates and done graffiti too.

    its crazy fun :)

    do something with people you know.

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  • Squambly+

    Oh I used to be the same way. I don't like going out still though. I guess cause I'm lazy and I perfer my own company or at least the company of someone who has similar interests as mine. Believe it or not it's hard to find people who aren't douches. But push yourself. And try as hard as you can to let go of your insecurities or at least push them aside.
    YOU CAN DO IT! o(^▽^)o

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  • plum6

    Just do whatever makes you feel happy. Going out shouldn't be a chore or something you HAVE to do in order to be appreciated. If you stay home a lot, at one point you will probably feel like putting yourself out there again anyway, it's just a cycle people go through.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Same here.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Nowadays, it's becoming more normal. But I suggest that if this doesn't make you happy, then start going out with your friends again and become more social. Don't fall into the trap of becoming isolated. It's really easy to do.

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  • haylee140x

    what ^

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  • shuggy-chan

    yup, but replace BF with GF and you have me

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