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Is it normal that I always have the urge to break up with my boyfriend ? I want to stay with him I just wonder what would happen.
I have said yes, but I think it depends on your age. I am in my mid twenties and in my current relationship and in the one before, I haven't at all had these urges (unless when I did break up with my ex for very good reasons).
If you are young, and by that I mean teenager or early twenties, or maybe just not very experienced in the matters of relationships but older, I think it is normal. At that point it is hard to know what you actually expect out of a relationship, how different they can be (and that most contain both good and less good elements) and that might wake up a curious feeling, about whether things could get better. Be careful about actually doing it though. Be sure for his sake and your own that it is for the right reasons you do it, if you do break up.
If you do have relationship experience and consider yourself _very certain_ of having a good idea of what you expect from a relationship and what you want for the rest of your life, I would consider it a warning sign. Maybe the deeper part of your mind has other hopes and wishes.
Same question as abnormalhotchick, because you might just not be old enough to even want to settle down. You might love your boyfriend to death, but if your not ready to settle down something will happen to mess it up.