Is it normal i get sick of my mom?

Maybe she's on her period?

You may just miss her concern one day, so go easy on her!

I'm not sure whether or not you are still a teenager, but you do come across that way in this post. It sounds partly like you're being a typical, sulky teenager for reasons it is difficult for your mom to divine, and partly like your mom has Narcissistic Personality Disorder, which is difficult for you to deal with, and hence the sulky teenager act from you.

If you're old enough to have a job, you're old enough to get yourself up on time for work. Of course, as you've already indicated, you know that. And you might just have to answer to "that kind of bullshit" when your boss fires you for missing work. Answering to "that kind of bullshit" when you're the one who screwed up is part of growing up. Welcome to adulthood.

I'm not really clear on why your mom thought it was your fault that she knocked over the pasta glass. It sounds like she was looking for someone to blame for something she did that she really wished hadn't happened, and maybe there was something she felt you should have done that you didn't do, so that made it easy for her to blame you for it. You know, kind of like the way you're blaming your mom because you didn't get up for work on time?

Talking to her child about how many guys are checking her out is definitely an NPD move. You should tell her in a more adult manner how that makes you feel. If she doesn't get that already (and really, as a mother, she certainly should), then you playing the sulky teenager isn't going to help her to understand your position any better.

Really, it sounds like the two of you could definitely benefit from professional counseling.

I heard that brother.

It's normal. My mums is a bitch too. She makes me sick, and agressive. Fuck, I can't wait to move out..

You two are alone, aren't you. Hey, it's normal to for parents to irritate their kids. It's part of the job description. If she's a single parent, realize she has sacrificed A LOT to raise you & be there for you. She can't go out and let her hair down like people w/out kids, or married people can, (time/$$). Think about it, she works all day, then, comes home to take care of you. This is NOT your fault, this too is part of the job description (for single parents anyway). But it would help if you understood that. You're old enough to talk too about some adult things now, and she wants to be close to you, because she loves you. (Otherwise, she wouldn't have sacrificed so much). She may also need someone to listen to her (that IS why women talk so much). I know it's not easy, but if you can learn to interact w/her a little more, & listen (or, pretend to), a little more, you may find life a little easier. She just wants to connect with you though, she may not know exactly how to do that. You can help her there. Communicate w/her. Try to put yourself in her shoes once in a while. Try to understand her point of view, you may find yourself liking to be with her a little more. (small steps, a little here and there can make a world if difference). It's nice to see a post from someone who's not completely self-absorbed, just troubled. Try not give her too hard a time. Take care kid, I hope this helps.

My mom is the SAME way. Oh my god. It's annoying. But she left for two weeks and it has been the best 4 days ever so far! Hahah

Lol @randomjelly...but i understand completey. I let my parent drive me to complete insanity. Thats right, we have the choose to whether let someone bother us or not, but we are human right?. Do like me, if you're over 18 make it your life's mission to get the hell away. Get a job or whatever, you'll feel much better

Your poor mother.

If you're 18+ what's stopping you from moving out?

Even though your post is complaining about her, your words (thoughts) betray you because they make you seem like a bratty teenager.

Moms and Dads are human beings that have bad days and need comfort too.