Is it normal i get bored in a relationship after having sex?

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Hello people,
Now i'm only the age of 18, and currently at University. But i have a strong fear, or should we say something i found strange about me.

My feelings in past relationships have been mixed. My ex-girlfriend was quite young, i couldn't fully trust her (but she hadn't done anything to prove this), but i had strong feelings for her. We split up after a short time, and we never had sex. Whether i liked her because she was similiar to me in personality or because i hadn't had sex with her i don't know. But she was young, quite popular, she didn't love me (which is good because it wasn't that long) she wasn't all over me as such, and was quite a teas.

The girl i dated before this was a 3 month relationship, who was EXACTLY (same day) a year younger than me. At first it was great, we did eventually have sex, but when i found a guy wrote on her wall 'asking to meet up' i instantly lost all my feelings for her....is this normal?

Since then, i have been meeting up with the girl above for sexual reason (she does, honestly enjoy having sex with me) but she want's it to be more than that...but i don't have feelings for her. We aren't currently talking because i was apparently 'talking and flirting to to other girls', but as i said, we were basically friends with benefits.

As is clear, i feel that i like the more rebelious, naughty and younger girls, whereas those who are shall we say 'easy' and fall in love with you (like my ex,ex girlfriend did) are not my style.

Is it normal that i can't trust people easily? Is it because i can't trust myself? (I've never cheated before but the thought has been there), Or is it because i'm not ready for a long term relationship?

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    Totally normal my friend. And Facebook is stupid, shit like that is why i deleted mine. A bunch of douche bags trying to get attention. But that's besides the point, anyways, its normal. I don't like the easy girls either, those relationships never last, they are too immature to be in one. That's my opinion though, doesn't mean its this way for everyone. If you like this girl you're currently encountering, then keep things going the way they are, try to leave drama aside, focus on each other and see what you like. Pros and cons. This goes both ways. Hopefully I helped, good luck!

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    You are ready for FWB. Be very careful not to hurt your partners feelings.

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  • Raverbasher
    12 years ago

    Yeah, totally normal.

    Try not to cheat on anyone though. It sounds like you think on this a lot, so if you're already having trust issues and then turn into a cheater, you may find it hard to trust a woman if things become more serious.

    Keeping relationships as FWB is a good way to go, or saying you don't want anything serious. Also, be aware that if you tell a girl that you don't want anything serious and then start sleeping with her, they nearly always fall for you for some reason...

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    An 18 year old guy that's only into sex!!! Woah, didn't see that one comming lol Not normal! 18 year old guys think with their hearts not their penis NOT lol Normal, unfortunately

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