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I find women attractive but never want a girlfriend or anything like that. Am I a weird asexual? Someone tell me please.
Being asexual is not “weird” it’s just an uncommon sexuality. It’s impossible for me to comment on what your sexuality might be from such a short post but if I were you I would ask myself why I don’t want relationships with women. Are you actually attracted to them (i.e. would like to do romantic or sexual things with them) or do you just recognise that they are pretty in the way you recognise when nature is pretty? Or perhaps you find them romantically attractive but not sexually attractive? Romantic and sexual orientations do not always line up and some asexuals do feel romantic attraction. It is also possible that you are not asexual or aromatic and are just not ready for a relationship at this time, that is also completely valid.
For more information on asexuality I recommend this website:
https://www.asexuality.org/
Perfectly normal. I find men attractive and even have a celebrity crush (I call him the Guv'nor and let's just leave it at that) but have no desire to marry or even date. Men are like exotic wild animals, beautiful to look at but dangerous to be with.
I'm asexual but I want a relationship and feel happy in one.
If you don't want a relationship it's called being aromantic, that means you don't fall in love hence don't desire relationships. If you're merely asexual you probably still experience romantic attraction unless you're both asexual and aromantic.
Sounds like maybe it could be a commitment issue... I'm just spitballing here. If you were asexual my understand is you wouldn't be attacked to anyone