Is it normal i feel uncomfortable abusing my masochist boyfriend?

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me and my boyfriend are seniors in high school and recently started having sex. neither of us are virgins, i've had sex with one of my close friends at camp and he had a long time girlfriend. well the problem is he's a complete masochist. most of the time he can't get it up fully without being hit, hard, bit, and most of the time, cut, until there's blood. even with going down on him i have to use my teeth. and no he's not some emo freak, he's really funny and popular, varsity second string quarterback, just kind of the typecast cool guy, you'd never think he loves being beaten the hell out of before sex. i feel really good that he's comfortable enough with me to tell me about this stuff, but i feel so weird about doing this stuff to him. it doesn't hurt him and i know he loves but, but sometimes i feel too weirded out, is this normal?

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    give it a chance, you might start to enjoy the dominating aspect. however if you cant get into the groove of things maybe you two are just not that compatible sexually.

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  • SxonSloane
    10 years ago

    Yes it is normal. My boyfriend was weirded out when I told him I was a sadomasochit. He is still getting used to abusing me; seeing as I am so much smaller than him and one wrong move could possibly kill me. I have started to abuse my boyfriend too. It was unusual to see him in such a venerable state but we are both now sadomasochists. So It works out quite well.

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  • junglebook20
    13 years ago

    its normal to not feel comfortable. you havent fully gotten used to youre sexuality. BUT does he know that youre not happy doing these things? i think cutting someone would bother me. and as for him bein a varsity football player; it doesnt matter. these kinds of things can happen to anyone: an emo kid, a jock, a book worm, whoever.

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