Is it normal i feel ugly although i'm very pretty?

I know I am very beautiful. I see it in pictures and in the mirror. I KNOW it. However...I FEEL ugly. I FEEL like everyone around me thinks I'm disgusting because they are always staring. I KNOW they are looking because I'm attractive...but why do I feel so ugly/fat/not worthy? I don't know what to do! This is driving me insane. Every boyfriend I have ever had told me I was the most beautiful girl they've ever seen. Why am I feeling so low then? Help me =(

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  • ThatGuyRightThere

    Ok. This is not to be mean. Don't be pretentious. Besides that, the only way you will feel beautiful is to feel beautiful inside. To do that, you've got to GENUINELY love yourself, have confidence and a free-spirit. Anybody on this site can tell you anything you might want to hear, but the only way you'll ever feel pretty is by your own doing, your own actions and thoughts. I suggest looking inside yourself rather then outside. Meditate or do yoga, something to clear your thoughts and examine yourself and learn to love who you are. You can't have any love for others unless you love yourself first.

    P.S. I can make you feel beautiful anytime you want... :)

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  • Stupidlookingguy

    gain self-confidence.

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  • x13godslayer13x

    Really? I don't think this is pretentious at all. I think this is the affect that social media has on women. This is what it does to us. You could be the most beautiful woman on the planet and social media will find a way to make you think or feel like you're a piece of shit. Like you could be better in some way. Your skin could be clearer, or tanner. Your hair could be lighter. You could be more outgoing and fun. I think this is where the question is stemming from. I've felt this way before. I still do once in awhile. I'm old enough to know I'm beautiful in my own way, old enough to know that I'm not ugly. Old enough to know myself inside and out and love myself for who I am. But sometimes I still feel like I am ugly, because I'm not the socially acceptable definition of "beautiful." So no, you're not being pretentious. Disregard that. Love yourself in your own mind. Realize the things that you love, and own them. Whatever they are. Sports, drawing, hunting, writing, watering plants, etc. Be yourself. The feeling is not going to go away. Social media has a way of sticking in your brain sometimes. I suggest getting rid of it and stop googling stuff asking for other peoples opinions because people are assholes when they can hide behind a computer screen and say what they want without knowing the situation going on in your mind.

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  • JoethePlayerz

    Never trust what boyfriends say. We men will say anything to get into your pants. Don't trust yourself either because you are subjective. So, when you look in the mirror, you are likely to think you are beautiful... when in essence you could be REALLY, really UGLY. Send me your picture, I will be honest with you.

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    • chloeeeislovex

      haha you sly perve.

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    • DuskX

      ya totally pervert ><

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  • Beckzy

    get over yourself. if u dnt feel beautiful u never will be.

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  • LAgirl427

    I feel the same. My mom said I was one of the most beautiful girls in the world, guys come onto me, my friends call me beautiful but i don't see it at all. I think im the most ugliest girl in the world and i get jealous whenever I see drop dead gorgeous girls like selena gomez, demi lovato,zendaya, ariana grande and bella Thorne. I just wish i looked like them and not like myself. Im 17 btw

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  • Worm12345

    get over yourslef, looks like u love yoursleffl to much, FREAK.

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  • me too, i dont feel pretty but when i look in the mirror i actually look ok but i fell like im really geeky looking even tho im not.

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    • Seustewart

      Beauty comes from within and u need sum1 like me to help bring it out.

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  • wallydarn

    That's called feeling haggish.

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  • angryheros31863

    I think I used to be beautiful like 5 months ago but now I gained like 10 lbs. I'm tall and people tell me I look great and that I'm beautiful but I hate how I look now. So I started inline skating outside to loose weight so I hope when I do I will like myself better. As long as you aren't puking up your food or starving yourself its normal for every girl to go through phases where you don't like what you look like.If you start harming yourself because of it thats not normal.

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    • Seustewart

      Beauty comes from within and u need sum1 like me to help bring it out.

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  • dirtymann

    Do you have cottage-cheese thighs?

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