Is it normal i feel somewhat rejected from this? long topic
Ok, so I had never asked this guy for his number in person which was kind of ridiculous from the start. I just didn't know if I should or not since I was leaving from college in a couple weeks at the time I knew I liked him, somewhat. We had worked together at a restaurant which I was working there for one of my classes and he was taking a culinary class there.
But I ended up getting his number through Facebook the last week since I knew I wasn't going to see him again and I did feel some regret for not attempting to see what would happen if I asked him to hangout. I just asked to hangout through a message but he didn't get it until a couple days later and there was only one day left to hangout with him but he had to work during the time we could.
But first he sent a message back on Facebook to give him a call when I had time to hangout and gave me his number. I ended up sending him a text message about how I was packing and cleaning so I sent him a message. He got back to me about an hour later saying he would like to but he had to work. I then sent him "Ok, well just give me a call or send me a message this summer if ya would like to hangout". I thought that was a good idea just to let him know that I still would like to hangout and am willing to even though I'll be a few hour away basically. He sent "aren't you moving up north?", since I told him about how I'll be going back home for a while. I told yes and asked why just to make it more clear on my side too. He said OK I just had to make sure because he was confused. I sent yep and something else. Then I sent another message I can be rather confusing and asked how work was coming since I had actually worked with him there before and it was busy some days and very slow some, I never got a response back. But the message were sent back and forth through the day basically.
But I feel kind of ridiculous for some reason. I'm not planning on contacting him again, because I know I have contacted him enough and I put enough effort if he does care to become friends. But I do get this funny feeling he won't contact me again. I probably should forget him and move on... there are plenty of other good men out there.
Although I was thinking of eventually asking him to come to this concert that I go to every summer that has 10 bands perform out at these fairgrounds. Which I'm going to be asking several other people to come too. I was thinking of just adding it as an event on facebook and add him possibly, thats if I don't decide to delete him from facebook first. lol