Is it normal i feel rejected when my posts aren't popular?

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I actually had to stop using FB because I would put pictures up or create a post and no one commented. I don't get it and felt rejected, a failure.

I get on really well with people in real life, but on social media it's a whole different ball game, and I just don't get what I'm doing wrong? Am I topically boring? Don't have 200+ friends on FB to increase the chance of responses? Too sensitive?

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  • KillerQueen
    10 years ago | pl

    Thanks guys, I feel better.

    I did once read a funny article on the types of people and behaviour you see on FB, like the person that tells you every little boring details about what they do like "making a cup of tea now" - like anybody gives a crap, and the sympathy vampires making half statements to draw you in to a sympathy fest "It's awful..!"

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    • CozmoWank
      10 years ago

      Lol, "sympathy vampires". I saw a woman post in the news stream once "Oow I'm so mad." Good for you, who gives a fuck. I think she also once posted "Eating a bagel."

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        That's hilariously pathetic.

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    • jeebley
      10 years ago

      lol Awww, don't worry! It's not that bad...

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  • Sog
    10 years ago | pl

    The people that post non-stop on Facebook are just really emotionally needy people that need constant attention and reinforcement.

    I've noticed that most people on my friends list really don't use the site much at all and it's the same dozen or so people that just post everything.

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  • Gbm1
    10 years ago

    I went onto Facebook the other day for the first time in a very long time. Not many people use it these days. I guess it's become old and not very interesting anymore. I don't think it's anything personal.

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  • CozmoWank
    10 years ago

    It's not you, it's them. People on FB don't have real lives. That's why they're on FB. Don't worry so much about it. We've all been there.

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    • kelili
      10 years ago

      People on FB don't have real lives?! I won't understand why people keep saying that, I'm on FB every single day. I am addicted to Candy Crush but I do have a life beside that. I am studying, I have a job, I go out, I read a lot, I write and I know quite a number of other people on FB who have very interesting lives.

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      • Diver2
        9 years ago

        I only know you from here but I always love you.

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        • kelili
          9 years ago

          Oh, that's sweet. Thanks for the love <3 It's never too much, they say. <3

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    sigh...I feel your pain friend..i feel it deeply. I had it happen to me when i was a member of fucking reddit

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  • --Quinn--
    9 years ago

    The thing thats not normal about it is that you worry so much! It's fine if they don't like your posts. It probably means nothing.

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  • Canttel
    10 years ago

    Same! I dont go on fb alot just because of that reason! I would post a pic and none of my friends would comment or like it. Im like wtf???

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  • dickwashington
    10 years ago

    i hate face book

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