Is it normal i feel really offended over looking young?

I know it does sound petty but its really bad. Im almost 20 and I look between 11-13. I hear comments about how Ive probably never been called hot before, about how my partner must be a pedophile, when I buy my birth control I get such nasty scoffs about how I shouldnt be using it so young, when I buy stuff like scratch tickets people are so shocked and accuse me of using a fake id. And I regularly get told Im too young to be online and I should be doing my homework.. When I act my age and things do slip out like swearing or I buy something like a mature video game people act like my parents are failures for having such a young child into those things but Im seriously almost 20. Its starting to really make me pissy. I feel like I cant do anything my friends do without being super judged.. and for having my parents judged... :( Is it normal to be so aggravated over looking young? People say to be grateful but I have a hard time after all the insults Ive recieved.

It doesnt matter how young you look, youll appreciate it. 15
Its good to look young, but these people are very rude. 11
That kind of sounds crappy... 4
I dont know if I could live with people being so nasty towards me. 0
Its fine to look young but I wouldnt want to look THAT young. 1
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  • RainbowFlash

    I am mid 30's and easily look early 20's.

    The worst bit is when you are in a position of authority and are required to give an informed, educated dissemination of information or opinion... and people don't take you seriously because they think you are younger than you are.

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    • Ellystar18

      That sounds awful x.x

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      • RainbowFlash

        It has it's upsides :)

        There won't be the same problem in years to come as better education is available earlier. People are used to hearing 20 somethings making millions in kickstarters and things. It was unheard of a generation ago.

        The face of people that hit on me, teens, when they find out I am in my mid 30's.. priceless XD

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  • RoseIsabella

    When you're about 35 or 40 years old I suspect you'll feel differently.

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    • Paigiepoo

      This post is some guy

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      • RoseIsabella

        Hahaha... okay.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    boo fuckin hoo

    clown

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    • Ellystar18

      k lol

      If Im a clown, dont bitch when you have wrinkles and look old as hell.

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

        i already do and look youngern yalld imaigine

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        • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

          and sperienced moren yall could buy

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          • Ellystar18

            So... were you trying to say I already look younger than yall would imagine any experienced moron yall could buy? Because Im not following with what you typed.

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            • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

              a quarta vodkyll do that

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  • BareClaire

    People can be rude and hurtful and Im sorry you are going through that crap.
    Just be strong and laugh at their stupid asses

    I remember when I used to get asked for my ID when going out to a club or bar. It used to be a bit irritating.

    Not nearly as irritating as these days when the girl in front of me who is only 3 years younger got asked for ID and so I had mine out at the ready only to be told "Your fine ma'am I dont need to see yours"

    So enjoy it while it lasts cause once its gone you REALLY miss it.

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  • theblackjess

    I feel you! I'm 20, and I don't look as young as you, but people often think I'm 15. It's annoying. I got carded to see Deadpool, because you have to be 17 to see R-rated movies. My (younger) friend didn't. Everyone says you'll appreciate when you're older, and I'm sure I will, but right now it suuucks.

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  • mypenisinyourmouth

    I'm 30 and people say I look very young too... but, after reading all your replies to the other people, I can honestly say that atleast I am not being a bitch about it

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  • Paigiepoo

    solid, your a man. and …. no its not normal because, your a man.

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    • Ellystar18

      Are you talking to me??? I'm not a man. I'm a woman

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      • Paigiepoo

        Sorry, some of the post sounds as if it was written by a guy being deceitful .
        I dated a girl that was 5' and very young looking at 24 yrs old. It bothered me sometimes , her mind was a kickass woman yet I felt like I was with a kid. I told her . She already knew.
        Hey! Looking young for most of your life rocks

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  • dytrog

    My sister could not buy cigs when she was 21. She filled out with time and had a nice figure.

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  • PervertedLonerGirl

    Im 22, I wear make up all the time (foundation, blush, eyeliner, mascara, eyebrows coloured with eyebrow pencil) and people still think Im 16-18 but someone told me I look like 14. However I was never asked for my ID in a club, so I dont know if I really look young or just people around me are dumb. I guess people think Im a teenager because Im small and slim and I usually wear sneakers+jeans+tshirt and I hate it when I have to dress formal, and I have to run to catch the bus everyday so sneakers are the best option for me. And it really sucks when people tell me I look like a teen because I hate teenagers and I hated being a teenager because everyone around me was just stupid and annoying. (they still are but I give less fucks about them)

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    • Ellystar18

      Lmao I hate teenagers too thankfully in a few months I wont be one anymore... but people probably wont stop thinking im one until im 30 lol

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  • Fugazi,

    Its worse when youre 21 in an adult prison and you look about 15

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    • Ellystar18

      Lmao I can imagine

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  • What Rose said, you're gonna look young for your age when you're older aswell and that's a blessing. I can imagine it's gonna be a pain for now but you'll be glad later down the line, bud.

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    • Ellystar18

      Ill try to remember that .. lol

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  • Rihyae

    I've come to think of it as a blessing to look like a kid at 20. A tall kid with big boobs.. People still ask if I'm 14 or what grade I'm in.. Are you short? It might be worse for you.

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  • mysistersshadow

    Do you play into or against this image? I had grown men hitting on me when I was 12 becos at least they said I looked old enough to be legal. Make up how you dress how you carry yourself all become part of your presentation. If your wearing no make up or in a way that accentuates a very young look or dressing like a child or have the hair style of a child and act like a child thats how alot of ppl will perceive you.

    But the bottom line should be... why do you care what other ppl think? Ppl that will judge you like that aren't worth your time.

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    • Ellystar18

      Well.. Let me see I have wavy long hair that I usually wear just down and I wear a lot of t-shirts and jeans im not really into super girly stuff and im not into makeup. and i have thought maybe me not wearing makeup is it and maybe people are just use to that older look makeup gives you?? but im not like super short or anything.

      and i dont know. i always have i guess. i think i just want to be taken seriously and it sucks a little when no one is taking you seriously even if you carry yourself well. also i know its dumb but it makes me feel gross and people think my partners a pedo so i feel bad for him. but i just have this super chubby face, with innocent looking eyes lol. but i have heard people say i look 16 or 17 but a lot of people think im 13 or 12

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  • BlackyHancock

    When you're 30 or 40 that's going to be great for you.

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    • Ellystar18

      I dont really think it will be great if I still look twelve though. I mean what if Im out with my husband and kids, and people bash me thinking Im a teen mom?

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      • BlackyHancock

        Somehow I don't think you'll look 12 when you're 30 or 40 (unless you're a very small person with some kind of medical disorder). Maybe you'll look 25 when you're 40.

        As for the bashing part, I hope that doesn't happen, but it's more likely your partner that gets bashed - you'll just get dirty looks.

        I used to have a similar kind of 'problem'. Now that I'm older people tell me they think I'm 10 years younger than I actually am.

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        • Ellystar18

          I would have no complaints against that. But I have met people in their 50s that dont even look 18 I feel that must just suck... And nah Im 5'5 lol its just my face.. and oh yeah i do he looks at least 10 years older than his age lol

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        Lol then they're douchebags.

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        • Ellystar18

          Haha, probably right. But I have seen it happen which is stupid because everyones heard the sayiing never guess a womans age.

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