Is it normal i feel like i made someone love me?

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I was friends with a guy for a while. He didn't seem interested in me and we were casual friends but I started liking him more and more to the point where I wanted him to feel what I felt so I admittedly watched a few YouTube videos on how to get a guy to chase you and fall in love.

I can't say I followed all the steps but I did use some of the tips and we started growing closer and spending a lot more time together.

Now hes in love with me, wants to be with me as much as possible and I feel like it's only because I brainwashed him by using the tips. One was the push pull method which I used for a short while.

He says I'm the most amazing person he's ever met, that he loves everything about me and he's definitely in love with me but is it normal I feel I made this happen and I don't know if that counts?

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    You realize that what you are describing is manipulation, and brainwashing. Not cool, not cool at all, but you probably aren't as powerful as you think you are, because I doubt that stuff would work on someone when there's no actual attraction present.

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  • TerriAngel
    4 years ago

    Why are you second guessing?
    Get on the pony and ride.

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  • Nachname271
    4 years ago

    I think it is ok what you did. The media brainwashes us as well as school, advertisements, social networks and so many more.

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  • Clunk42
    4 years ago

    What's the "push pull" method?

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  • formerAbuserMaybe
    4 years ago

    "One was the push pull method"

    Some day he will hate you and you won't be able to play your games anymore. Enjoy

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Well I did stop using that the second we got in a routine of spending more time together

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