Is it normal i feel like i cheated?

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I was at a friends house and they walked me home but it got really late so she stayed over and slept next to me. The peoblem is I lied to my boyfriend out of fear he'll be upset about it...he always gets upset when I'm with her. We're both girls and yet I feel like a monster for allowing her to sleep over when I know he dislikes her...should I confess? I'm afraid he'd break up with me because of my lie

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Based on 37 votes (12 yes)
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  • Azaman
    7 years ago

    I don't think you did anything wrong. Why does he always get upset when you're with your friend? Sounds unreasonable.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Because me and my friend have been through quite a few fights(not involving him) and I always said I'd never speak to her again...but I don't really keep grudges on people...He does...and he got so pissed of about it I now feel extremely guilty for lying...

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Well that's what usually happens in a relationship with a control freak: you lie to keep the peace. Is this really how you want your life to be?

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  • Digsbie
    7 years ago

    You did nothing wrong except maybe not telling the truth. I n your circumstance its understandable. Why be with someone so controlling? You are free it to friends with anyone you choose.

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  • masterbaiter
    7 years ago

    I sleep next to my guy friend after playing video games once and a while and my girlfriend doesn't care. I crash at his house sometimes so we can continue gaming in the morning. A "sleepover" at a friends house is not and should not be considered cheating. I suppose if you were sleeping at another guys house he might have a right to be a little upset but otherwise you're doing nothing wrong

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  • ODED_OBLITERATE
    7 years ago

    Oded here, drama, a chronically bored person's virtual reality TV show. I do heavily believe in honesty in relationships. If this person truly loves you, they will stick around after a sit down mature talk. I say have a calm sit down and pow-wow it out.

    Oded....out

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  • rose_ambroz
    7 years ago

    Honey you didn't do anything wrong

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  • Boobmaster68
    7 years ago

    He might not like her but he should respect you enough to let you make your own decisions.

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