Is it normal i feel insecure about everything?

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i feel insecure about everything on me,about my body ,my hair.especially my big vagina lips.(i have opened a certain topic about that)i feel insecure about my personality,even i feel that im friendly and i like meeting new people,most of them at first they are excited about me BUT after a while they find me strange and odd.i dont have many friends i always was the outsider...i also feel that girls dont even look at me(im a les).sometimes those feelings are so intensive...

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  • CaptainObvious
    11 years ago

    You have self-esteem issues.

    ~Cpt. Obvious

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    You're dwelling on it too much. People don't pay as much attention to us as we think they do. And what makes you odd, do ya think?

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    • lezkiss
      11 years ago

      well i dont know exactly,but many people have told me that sometimes my insecurities are obvious to the others,mamy many times i misunderstand other people and believe that they judge me in a negative way.but here is the problem people that dont like me judge me in front of my eyes and when i try to defend myself ,the tell me (oh dear no i didnt mean anything wrong but you know you misunderstand everything you have issues)so im confused when im right and when im wrong?i go to a psycologist for many years but i havent solved my issues yet..in addition im afraid of people and im DEPENDING ON THEM i cant take a desicion without asking one two persons before...

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      • dirtybirdy
        11 years ago

        Well I guess you just have to keep trying to work it out. You can't let what people say bother you so much. If your psychologist hasn't helped much in many years, maybe you need a new one or just learn to deal with it on your own but that may not be an option for you. We all have issues and things we may be insecure about but that's just life. You just have to figure out a way to let yourself be yourself. I know its easier said than done.

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        • lezkiss
          11 years ago

          thank you so much for your respond...thats exactly i want to achieve;to be myself..but all people have more than one or two aspects,havent they?i mean that you may be shy but you are also social sometimes,you are a serious person but you also may be funny,you like talking about society etc but you also like talking about clubs,beauty,style etc.as far as myself is concerned,what am i of all these?? and finally i feel sad when people cant understand sometimes that i am not only a bimbo because sometimes i talk about silly stuff for example...

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          • dirtybirdy
            11 years ago

            Most people do have several aspects about them. I only take a few important things seriously, and the rest is basically a joke. I don't care what people think of me because they are usually the one with the problem. Its perfectly normal to be shy sometimes and more outgoing other times. or serious sometimes and silly other times. It would be so boring if people were just serious all the time and couldn't joke around. You have to be able to joke about yourself as well. And it does not make you a bimbo for being silly or talking about silly things. Other people just need to loosen up and if they cant, don't let it bother you. As long as your thoughts and actions are not a threat to others,just allow yourself to be yourself. It took me too long to realize these things, but my life is so much better since I did.

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