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I consider myself bisexual but every time I have sex with a man I feel incredibly bad afterwards and I don't know why. It doesn't happen when I'm with women, could I be a lesbian? Because I think some men are very attractive but when it comes down to intimacy I just feel terrible afterwards.
~ confused 19 year old
i dont know why u feel that way...but i to have been with both sexs....but i have only loved one man...and now that hes gone almost two years have gone by and although ive met some very handsome men in that time...i have yet to have a connection with a man again...i seem to have become more atracted to women now i believe its the simple fact that i understand them and they understand me...and i think i need that...am i gay no but i am bysexual but i can see why some decide to be gay...for some a choice needs to b made for themselves gay or straight...for me im ok being unsure...because when i feel loved and i love again i dont think it matters if it a guy or a girl as long as its real for us both...ur question is normal to wonder about...trust me u are not alone..good luck..
If you're feeling guilty about having sex with men, you might also want to consider talking to a therapist.
Guilt suggests that you're somehow doing something wrong, breaking rules. You might want to consider your own history to figure out why you're associating sex with 'doing something wrong'.