Is it normal i feel everyone takes advantage?

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I am very gullible and agreeable and I feel like everyone I know uses this to their advantage. Like when I borrow money from my mom she borrows 5 times more from me later and doesn't want to pay me back. And when I visit my sis and end up driving her all over the place and I leave feeling like we didn't even hang out. And my dad and my bf and anyone who knows me pretty well. They all have control over me because I love them and they know this and they all tell me not to let others walk all over me but they do it themselves... ugh. I feel like I can't trust any of them sometimes because they can even lie to me about anything and it would take me forever to figure it out. I trust them so much that I feel I shouldn't trust them. What is wrong with my brain? Why can't I be more cynical?

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    How about a fast fuck until Friday?

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  • someperson123
    13 years ago

    what everyone else said, but also, look at it this way. you're not useless, it would be worse if no one came to you wanting anything from you, just be selectively useful

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Stop taking the bullshit and simple say to everyone im tired of you using me. I want something back in return of everything Ive done for you.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    Gaaah! People do this to me too. I hate it, and then if I were to ask them for something, which I really don't like asking people for thing's they would have a list of excuses why they can't give it to me. People are user's and abuser's.

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  • SirTannen
    13 years ago

    Everyone takes advantage of me as well, but you should take a stand and not let everyone walk all over you.

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  • tinaturner
    13 years ago

    It's normal, yes. But not very good. I'm kind of like this too so I understand. You have to learn how to be tough and aggressive without being a bitch. You have to learn how to stand up for yourself in life or it will only get harder. Try talking to the people you love and tell them nicely that you don't feel appreciated and feel taken advantage of. Then if they still don't listen, bitch slap them :-)

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