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After I finish watching porn I feel embarrased ,disgusting,perverted,akward,paranoid,and just wrong.So ive been trying to not think sexual but I can't help but to even think the most perverted things with something so trivial and innocent.
Im a girl and a virgin because I want to wait till marrage,I guess you can say my grandpa brainwashed me lol.
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I used to be like "what the fuck am I doing?" Now, it's like, "what the fuck, it's 1 in the morning and I have school tomorrow!"
Lmao its been like 3 hours since I read this comment n I still can't stop laughing. Omg dude ur so funny. Y at 1 in the morning?
I've heard of it before, I think it's repressed Catholic guilt or something.
I think it's very common to feel that way. I tend to retreat into my own personal, perverted imaginary world that serves the sole purpose of intensifying my arousal and giving me the strongest possible climax. Shortly after, I do feel a little disgusted with my thoughts. That imaginary place is nothing I would want anything to do with outside of sexual pleasure. So once I've come to, I just discard those twisted fantasies until the next time. They have no impact on my life otherwise.
I fully believe it's nothing to be ashamed about. Sex is the whole entire reason any of us are here, without it, humans nor animals wouldn't exist.
There's only three things you can do - Either stop masturbating, masturbate but bear your (in my opinion, wrong sense of guilt), or try to masturbate without feeling guilty.
I literally just got back from having sex with a girl ive no intention of seeing again and i don't even feel guilty one bit, why? because sex is the best thing in the world, to deny yourself sexual pleasure is to deny one of the greatest joys in life.
Does she know you feel this way. Or is she eagerly waiting for a phone call?
OOps, er, sorry. wrong place for above comment. Was supposed to be for the poor virgin who can't even masturbate in peace and relaxation. I just hit your name 'cuz i liked your observation on Darkoil.
I'm sorry you've been victimized by guilt. People are stupid, always make up your own mind about things, without grandpa's input, especially.
Very common, especially with women. I am male and have experienced this. The guilt/shame/paranoia/awkwardness is being created because you have conflicting emotions, you WANT to masturbate to porn yet you feel it may be immoral/weird/against religious doctrines etc.
Your brain wants to reach a definitive conclusion. But there is really nothing wrong with masturbation or porn in which those involved are consensual (agreeing to be filmed doing whatever it is).
You may or may not want to stop masturbating/watching porn until you have read up more on the subject.
But if you don't come to a conclusion you will continue to have these conflicting ideologies.
Think of it this way, should harmless sexual pleasure be considered "perverted" or "wrong"?
1. I recommend this site for some unbiased info, check out the intro video and articles: http://www.tinynibbles.com/smartporn
2. I highly recommend watch Laci Green's videos on YouTube, she is very well informed on many aspects of sex: http://www.youtube.com/user/lacigreen
3. I don't know if this video is your sort of humour, but IMO it has a good message: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KRzf3ghIZJI
Sorry for the rather oversized answer, but I hope it all helped.
Its normal i think you have arms and legs a head and so on for what so u can use them. There for u have a penis or vagina so u can use it your human