Is it normal i feel attracted to my friend?

I'm a guy and I feel sexually and emotionally attracted to my best friend, which is also male. The weird thing is he is the only guy I like, every other person I find attractive is a girl. I've also been sexually and emotionally attracted to many girls before, so is this normal?

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73% Normal
Based on 88 votes (64 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • NeuroNeptunian

    Yeah.
    Sexuality is just a comfort label. I know straight women who have found one or two women they'd go for. In reality, there's probably someone out there for all of us non-bi/pansexuals who would make us consider going for someone who isn't the sex we're usually accustomed to and attracted to. Don't feel like straight or gay is a life sentence. It's not. It's your life.

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    • dragonfruit33

      Being attracted to scat is a life sentence . I would never understand men wanting to RAPE another guy's ass. Leonardo da Vinci was also a faggot and he painted Mona Lisa as his gay lover in drag - maybe he yearned for a pussy to tap but he was too much of a coward to try a real woman out and he only got stuck with an idiot ass!

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  • wonderingweirdo

    You should go for it dude. See if he's feeling it, too.

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    • dragonfruit33

      Men who feel more for men than women are what is wrong with society. Creating a quasi rape culture where women are only perceived as objects to be used. And men are only respected. Wtf this guy is probably a chauvinistic JEW who failed Khaballa class. No it is NOT normal for guys to turn a blind eye to women unless they are completely misogynist bigots deep down in their messed up and twisted psychology. So him writing about feeling for women too is ridiculous! He is hiding female hatred from himself.

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  • peterrabbyt2

    Suck him off and tell us how it went.

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    • dragonfruit33

      Clearly he wants to, so why is he here trying to vilify himself for having fucked up faggot thoughts? Maybe he is a bottom, he likes to get humiliated! He should try a daddy gay bear instead. His friend will laugh at him. Maybe his friend don't even like dick, maybe his friend just using his ass until he gets the chick of his dreams that likes CLEAN PUSSY sex.

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  • pigflyingpig

    Yeah, I mean if you like him and have never had these feelings before its not completely impossible that he might also feel that way about you. I like to think its normal anyway.

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    • dragonfruit33

      Telling a confused guy that this shit is normal can do more harm than good. Jeebus why are all you guys fixated on some bromance?! Why do you insist that the guy in question have the same feelings. The author might just make this shit up in his head - because he wants to be "loved" , admired, or desired or even respected by another one of the male species. Or maybe he is just a pervert who wants to make other males suck him off too.

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  • baronroderick

    You reach number 1 on Kinsey Scale: Predominantly heterossexual, only incidentally homossexual. You'd be surprised to know how many people feel just like you. It's rumored that even Winston Churchill had an affair with a man, though it would be mostly inappropriate to call him "gay". So relax, it's absolutely normal.

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    • dragonfruit33

      Cycil John Rhodes was also a faggot. He was a millionaire who hated women. Go figure. His scholarships was probably intended for YOUNG BOYS only. Because he was probably a filthy pedophile too.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    So your friend is not a he it's an it?

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    • dragonfruit33

      We can say the author is objectifying his friend... because he feels women don't have the same emotions as men. Idiot. Yes.. i agree that he should jack off and kiss his guy friend. He must get lost in the rabbit hole, we don't need assholes like this in society or near women for that regard!

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  • kittykat5

    Maybe UR bi-sexual

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  • dragonfruit33

    You are so gay... although I would never understand males being attracted to each other unless it is about jealousy or envy, or wanting to become the object of your affection because you truly hate yourself!

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  • mrfairfax

    In this cultur it is frowned upon to be emotionally attracted to another guy. Many people will tell you that you're gay for it when what we really need is just some friendly affection and attention.

    You may not be gay. Step back and ask yourself if the attraction is really sexual, or if it's just emotional and you have made it sexual based on what society has told you is the norm.

    My blog (not anti-gay, just pro-bromance) may help you come to a decision. http://were-not-gay.tumblr.com/

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    • dragonfruit33

      Mr fairfax writing a blog to cover up your sexuality won't make you any less gay. Seriously dude. Bromance? You are good at lying to yourself!

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