Is it normal i dream of my ex

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i had a 7 year relationship with a guy... he broke my heart- i wanted to die- 2 years later i thought i fell in love again and got married. but now (4 years later) i miss my first- i dont usually think of him unless im in a fight with my husband, but lately out of the blue i dream of him at night. im romanticing a relationship that ended really badly. i just miss the good times with him... i dont want my marriage to suffer, but i know it has- i mean i cant even kiss him like i use to kiss my first, im screwed for life.

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  • Reina
    13 years ago

    You should have gotten closure from your first relationship and not be with your second relationship to fill in an emptiness in your life.

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  • Nitti
    13 years ago

    Hun i even get erotic dreams about my exes. Its fine youll be ok. Drink some tea and know how much you love your husband. (tea helps me with everything- yeah shutup it is a bit sissy of me)

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  • yayasaga
    13 years ago

    No you're not. Take charge of your life and your thoughts. Don't sit back and mess up a good thing you have going for you nw. Start acting and pretending you're inlove with your husband and after awhile I'm sure you'll forget when you stopped pretending and just started being. Like you said You are romantisizibg a past bad ending relationship. Move on.

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