Is it normal i dont know how to text girls?

It's the hardest thing ever! Trying to hold a conversation with a girl, whenever I text a girl I feel so boring an I know I bore them:/ I jus feel like im not doing it right and asking too many questions! How do you talk to these mysterious beauties?? GUYS What should I talk about to keep the conversation strong and interesting? PLEASE COMMENT TOO LADIES! I need to know what secretly holds your interests in conversations.

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Comments ( 30 )
  • yesnomaybeso

    We are not that weird.... I mean, just text like a normal person?

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    • RomeoDeMontague

      I would say this is the best advice. Act normal man!

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  • "mysterious beauties". That explains a lot. you think too high of women. You feel inferior to them and that's why you're shy and uninspired. You have to get rid of that stupid beta male mindset. Women are just as insecure and pathetic as you. Stop putting women on a pedestal you moron. Have some damn confidence and just fucking realize you're just as good as anyone else.

    Now go ahead soldier and get them bitches! THAT'S AN ORDER!

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    • dirtybirdy

      Do you live in a van down by the river...so to speak?

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      • No.

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        • dirtybirdy

          Oh. Maybe you should. You'd make a marvelous motivational speaker.

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    • RomeoDeMontague

      LOL Get them bitches THATS AN ORDER. Dude I love this. Its so true. We are all just people. OP needs to chill.

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  • disthing

    "mysterious beauties"

    Ha.

    Yeah, just relax - text the same way you talk in a conversation. No need to over-think it. You ask the odd question, answer the odd question, when the conversation reaches a conclusion (you run out of things to say or have to go do something) make your excuses. It's better to seem comfortable and confident than desperate.

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  • dom180

    If you think you're being boring when texting, just ask her if she wants to meet up in real life.

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  • Holzman67

    Normal. It's a state controlled mass suicide.

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    • Holzman67

      Oops my comment has appeared on the wrong story again.

      Girls are less mysterious when you call them dude. Text is just that, text.

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    • lolol555

      I feel bad for laughing at this.

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      • Holzman67

        At what?

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        • lolol555

          Your mistaken comment, for some reason your accidental relating this guy's inability to text girls to mass suicide made me chuckle.

          I'm not really sure why. As my username suggests, I laugh a bit too much at too many things.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    hello madam soilly i want to tell you that i have good vibes and i want to share these good vibes with you.

    lets vibe together.

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    • lolol555

      This, this exactly.
      You'll be drowning in pussy in no time.

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  • Pandabear16

    Just be yourself? I don't think there's a secret at all.... Just don't be an asshole to girls.

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  • Phishy

    Tell her you want to fuck her.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    First of all, do not use 'mysterious beauties' ever again. Woman have a lot more to them than just a pretty face.
    It's always good to ask how they are, out of politeness. But the only thing I think you are missing here is not having anything in common with these women you have been texting. Find a woman who you KNOW you have things in common, and then proceed to text her. If you know she likes to read, ask about books and authors. If she likes films, ask about films, actors and directors. If she's into sport, ask her about that. Remember, you have to be into the topic too so you can hold an intelligent, decent conversation!
    Having common interests is the best way to hold conversation. It opens doors to deeper conversation, chemistry and maybe a chance of romance.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Hey dude, I don't know how to text, period. How's that for lame, in this day and age?

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    • AbnormallyAwesome

      I feel you. I theoretically own a mobile phone but in the very rare case I'd actually want to use it, the battery is usually dead or I forgot my pin.
      And if I try to text someone it takes me an insanely long time that tends to end with: "F**k it, I'll just call."

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      • thegypsysailor

        Exactly!!!!!!
        It's a fucking PHONE, it is so easy and more pleasurable to talk to someone, OR I can email, if necessary. Text, shmext, fiddle sticks.

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  • Wuggums47

    They aren't mysterious beauties or some crap like that, they are human beings like anyone else. Just treat them the same way you should treat anyone else, with dignity and respect. If you know how to text a guy, you know how to text a girl.

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  • Are you Dale Robertson?

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  • If she's interested also, you wouldn't have to worry about boring her as she'll be inclined to keep the conversation flowing. I'm not a fan of long text conversations and I usually get annoyed when they do occur, so find out what she likes!

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    I will say this women find it boring when
    1.You text back 1-2 word responses

    Example: girl:Hi how are you doing today?
    Boy:fine
    Girl:Do you want to go out today?
    Boy:Fine
    Girl:what you doing right now?
    Boy:Nothing
    Girl:Cant you give more than one word responses
    Boy:Nope
    Girl:Well, why cant you?
    Boy:Cuz
    Girl:I hate you
    Boy:Ok
    Girl:See you at lunch
    Boy:Fine
    <generally annoys="" women)<br="">
    You are probobly the oppisate of most men. You need to chill. Girls are just people like everyone else. They have insecurities too and probobly have the same thought about men not liking them. Girls try to impress girls and other boys. Boy try to impress other boys and girls. Everyone feels insecure you are not the only one.</generally>

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  • dybex

    What is your motivation for texting the girl? Is it sex chat, a decoy, a girlfriend, or just more female friends?

    If you're stuck for topics to chat about then find out what her interests are and ask her about them. Ask her for advice on clothes, or a tattoo. Nothing serious, because she's probably going to show her friends what you've written. Make her feel like her views are valued, but DO NOT show any sign that you think she's better than you.

    Best to set a time limit for such conversations. Most girls will keep you up all night if you let them.

    Once you start chatting you'll soon realize that she's just as boring as you.

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  • nanawhite

    Personnally, I hate texting in general. It's not my thing. I prefer talking with guys and my friends face to face whenever I have the opportunity. But don't worry about texting girls. You could never know if you annoy a girl or someone else just by sending her messages, so don't make those kind of assumptions. Just be you and you'll see if she's interested or not. If she's clearly not, move on to another girl. Don't waste your time, and do not belittle yourself. When a girl's interested in you, she'll let you know about it by texting you from herself or telling you to meet her up irl. Don't be afraid. It's the easiest thing to do before meeting someone. Texting is too easy and always holding a conversation by texting with someone is fast boring, 'cause in the end, if you have nothing to tell to the girl when you see her in real because both of you have been talking all night about everything, that sucks haha. Just text girls a little or better, meet some of them irl :)

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  • Say something outrageous or random. If she doesn't respond or thinks it is lame, she is the boring one. That's just my spin on things at least.

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  • Trying to hold a secret at all How's that for an asshole.

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