Is it normal i dont know how to approach.....

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the fact that my wife is hiding something from me? She recently started locking and turning off her phone at night. She has ALWAYS kept her phone with her when she goes to the bathroom, leaves any room no matter what the length in time (2 seconds- 5 minutes) steps outside, or just runs to get something from the car.i cant even look at her phone without her looking over my shoulder, or even ask her who shes talking to without her getting an attitude, she will wait a few seconds and then say "oh its just my sister" or "just my mom again", or if i ask "is that your sis again? Or mom again?" no matter who i say that just so happenes to be "the person" shes talking to.
We have each made mistakes of talking to the opposite sex behind each others backs,and we both agreed that would never happen again. I have kept my promise, but i cant help but feel she has not. I told her that if it ever happened again we were done and up untill now i've had no suspicions. I would rather her just come out and tell me shes cheating on me than to just keep hiding it.
I dont know how to confront her without her accusing me of not trusting her or just trying to fight with her. The honest to goodness truth is that i do trust her, i do not care what she is hiding, i just want to know WHY she feels it necessary to hide things from me. Anywho, is it normal to not know how to approach this situation? Let me just say.....I KNOW SHE IS HIDING SOMETHING. PERHAPS SHE IS CHEATING ON ME, THAT IS NOT THE QUESTION!
How should i approach this? Any suggestions?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    dude, she IS cheating on you. she is acting all suspicious. just grab her phone from her and leave the house, and go get it unlocked at the local cell phone company she is registered to. fuck that dumb bitch

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  • Seustewart
    12 years ago

    Someone else is either tappin or about to tap dat ass.

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  • ashleeadtr
    12 years ago

    Be careful. My boyfriend did the same sketchy stuff with his phone. So I hacked his Facebook (you should try it!) and found out why he'd been so sketchy...he was talking to a BUNCH of girls. And I do mean flirting and making and to hang out and everything..I told him straight up, let me see your phone. If they have nothing to hide they won't have a problem.

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  • QuestionableLogic
    12 years ago

    Have her make an account here, show her your post, watch how she reacts. You've told US everything you need to say to HER, if you have to write it down then do that first. This is bothering you alot, so avoiding this isn't an option. Do what you gotta do.

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  • Rufus
    12 years ago

    Take her phone, examine everything on it, and knock her on her adulterous ass if she tries to stop you.

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  • TightRedShirtPurpleSkinnyJeans
    12 years ago

    Perhaps you should express your concerns to her but justify your thinking this through her recent strange actions with her phone.

    Maybe just ask why she has been acting so strangely in regards to her phone then go from there.

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