Is it normal i dont fit in?

I don't fit in with my friends. I'm not in school anymore, I have a lot of my own views, a lot of which people don't seem to agree with. I found this site hoping to finally fit in somewhere, in yet... I dont. Im on here quite a bit and i try to be as nice and as honest as possible. But my comments get voted down. Apparently, I am just an outcast. Probably not normal.. but worth a shot. Anyone else feel similar?

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  • JustDave

    Do you really want to fit in with a group of people who lick peanut butter off their dogs ass, enjoy incest, or change their underwear once a month? sometimes its good to be an outcast!

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  • salvetori

    I love how you have a positive attitude towards life and are always grateful for the little things. Don't worry, it'll all work out. Besides, most of the people who act like they hate you have some nasty problems at home

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  • We say we want to be normal but yet once we obtain that we want change we are always look for something different visversa. Accept the person you are and stop caring how other people are there's alot of haters in the world who push away the indefferent so don't let yourself down. you're special in your own way keep moving forward and sooner or later they'll realize you don't give a flap jack of what they think and you'll meet people who accept you be postitive and dont give up. You know there are more outcasts in the world than the "normal" people because normal people tend to be not so normal..

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    • karmasAbich

      Great advice. I really appreciate it.

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  • Browniegirl3

    It's totally normal. I'm feeling the same way. I'm a senior in high school and I don't have any close friends. They will eventually come. Family is most important. Try to focus on what your passionate about and learn about yourself and be glad to be who you are. It's hard being different because most people are so desperate to fit in that they do things that they normally don't do. But you don't. You need to be able to know when to go with the flow and when to go against it. It seems like your really sensative. I am too. For the most part we are are worst enemy. Don't put yourself down because you don't "fit in". I think you need to fit in with yourself first and it will be easier to fit in with others.

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  • gusipemeaza

    einstein and adison was not fitting in .... dont give a shit for what the people say and think because people will not really understand untill they see you on tv .....

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  • salvetori

    And yes, I'm that type of person, usually they ignore you like they do a celebrity, they think you are a god and when your down, there always there to help you up,

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  • Bubbles12

    I'm the type of person who, if I talk about my interests, has people glazing over. I'm not into football, or television, I couldn't care less about cooking or reality TV (especially reality TV). So I don't fit in. I don't do small-talk either, because I find most people rather boring. The other day I took a program from an art exhibition I saw to work, thinking it was a big deal (it was Picasso, for God's sake) and no one even looked at it. I realised they are just morons. You are probably more intelligent and interesting than your friends. The trick is finding a group of likeminded people to hang with. And yes, that's difficult.

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  • Sidekickz

    I dont fit in...: thats what he said! :3

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    • karmasAbich

      Funny! funny! Funny!
      Who's funny ? Your the funny one!
      Funny funny funny

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  • Abnormallynormal

    Who gives a shit about what people think...just be you!

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  • karmasAbich

    Ha yeah you guys are right. Thank you for the positive feedback.
    And justdave, that was hilarious. Haha

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  • Darkoil

    Don't judge yourself on how many thumbs up or down you get, I get a lot of thumbs down when I tell pussys to man the fuck up and it doesn't bother me, Then again I get quite a few thumbs up on other posts and yeah I do like to think someone might have thought I gave good advice.

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  • rin

    I agree with Dulse. I like seeing other peoples point of views and sometimes I learn new things.

    They vote your comment down because they disagree or just for fun. I wouldn't take it too personally although I don't like getting voted down either! ^.^

    I only vote a comment down if I feel offended in some way by the comment and don't agree with what was said or if it was a joke in poor taste meant to put someone down...more so the latter. :):)

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  • Dulse.

    I think it's normal.

    Which user are you?

    I think it's good to have individual and unique views on things, but it's also good to remember that others have good ideas that you may not have considered as well.

    Maybe you can try to collaborate more, or be more constructive with the community here, I don't know you or how you behave, but I hope this helps.

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    • karmasAbich

      Your right. Its absolutely possible I didn't consider something as well as another. Thank you. :)

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      • rin

        I love Dexter! I'm upset that we have to wait a year for the next season. What do you think is going to happen with Deb and Dexter?! I think she's the only one that Dexter could ever really truly love (besides his son), but they're probably not going to let that happen. XD

        I'm excited to see Louis' character develop.

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        • karmasAbich

          I havent seen the sixth season yet :( I by the seasons on dvd :/ I honestly cannot stand deb, but I gained a lot of respect for her after she let julia styles and dexter get away after killing the guys who tortured her. (In the fifth season) I'm buying the sixth season in august when it comes out. I'll definitly let you know what i think after i watch it though :)

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          • rin

            OMG I hope I didn't spoil anything >< I'm sorry if I did..xO

            I hate her ear...the one that sticks out on her right when she puts her hair behind her ear...lol

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            • karmasAbich

              Oh no you didn't ruin anything, in fact it got me excited for August even more!

              Oh I know. It's like one side of her entire head is lop sided. Not that its a bad thing, just throws me off. And her "holding back tears" face, drives me crazy. But I love that show none the less.
              :)

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