Is it normal i donnt wanna move out of my parents?

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Im 25 Male American, and the reason im telling u im american is because i know that alot of cultures that are'nt westernized tend to stay with thier familys thier entire lifes, India, Italian, Mexican, alota eastern cultuers... Im employed i help with bills and all but I just dont like the thought of not seeing my family every day, its never messed with my love life or anything and my parents dont mind but i just wanna know if its normal to want a family based life style? I meen if i was rich and had an enormous house then I would move my family in... Is any of this sounding Normal, or understandable?

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  • JenAus1217
    12 years ago

    I think it sounds very understandable. No matter where you come from, your lifestyle should be something personal. If what you really want is a family-based lifestyle, then I think you should go with it. There's nothing wrong with staying with your family, even though maybe the majority in America may prefer to live apart from their family.

    And since you're financially independent (as you said you are employed and you pay bills), then you're not relying on your family but just living/staying with them, which is perfectly fine.

    Your only concern may be your future partner/lover/wife's will. If she's willing to live with you and your family, then it's perfect. But if her will is to have a new home and live with you apart from your family, then you may consider living near your family, just like you can become neighbors with your family and so you can visit them frequently or even daily.

    Be loyal to the lifestyle you like! :)

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  • HunmbleKnowItAll
    8 years ago

    As long as your parents give you your space and u share bills with them

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  • flax
    12 years ago

    I have a 35 y/o male cousin with no gf who still lives at home with his mama...what you're doing, having a life whilst living home is fine. If you were like my 35 y/o cousin however...that would be weird.

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  • cl0wn
    12 years ago

    I think it's pretty normal and becoming more common these days. Save some cost too (you don't have to pay rent) and it's good that you're helping your family.

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  • ThatChick28
    12 years ago

    Very normal, and very cool of u, I wish my family was closer, appreciate it ^^

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  • Dot123
    12 years ago

    Yeah, that is a great life style! It's always good to help family.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    My brothers said they would only leave the family home kicking and screaming coz they got it so good at home!

    They only left to get married - the last one was 37 yo.

    I'm delighted that you have a great relationship with your family, good for you and I'm 100% positive you're doing the right thing. Why give yourself extra hassle?

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  • Just_feed_me_Troll_Meat
    12 years ago

    Is the relationship incestous at all ?

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