Is it normal i don't want friends?

actually if anything this sounds a bit of the exact opposite of not wanting friends.

it sounds a bit more like you really want someone who is close and likes you... but you're wary of being hurt so it's easier to push them away and think that they don't care.

so in a sad way you end up also creating the very situation you didn't want...

I think it is important to have friends, at least one, because it can be beneficial in many ways.
I also think it's sad if someone can't seem to be content to be without communication for a few hours. I think it's very important and beneficial to spend time alone.
Balance and moderation is always good.

I can relate to you to an extent.

No it's not normal. You should try making friends.

That was depressing

If you were really ok with having no friends... you probably wouldn't be asking if it's normal. You also mentioned you've tried bonding with other plus you do feel lonely at times. I guess this is your way of getting recognition and acceptance but really, who doesn't want friends? I've been that loner. I understand. But I made friends. Really, it's much better. Try it out :)

I actually don't want friends and my life isn't "sad". If anyone's life is sad, it's the pathetic normie that can't spend two hours by themselves without getting lonely. If I have a relationship with someone, it's because I get something from them.

With the way people are these days i can't say i blame you.

It's normal not to have any friends. I don't know why people need friends in the first place.

I feel you. I lost trust from my very best friend and it really hit me hard. Now i feel much more calm, i can handle myself better when im alone. I still have friends i just prefer to do things alone now. I even explored new things that i would've never found out if i was in a group.

I know how you feel. I have friends, but sometimes I feel left out because when we hang out with other people, they hang with groups and I feel alone.

I don't have friends either and being a loner is much easier then having friends.

While reading this I thought it was an old post of mine. Man this is exactly what Im going through right now so I have done research and basically they say the people who claim they don't want friends are only saying that to themselves because in reality, they can't make friends so they just give up. But really, we desire that group of friends.
Sigh...its a complicated subject. One, there is NOTHING wrong with enjoying your own company! I do! and so much! Right now as I'm typing this, I am in my school's library where I have spent most of this semester. I know it sounds sad but honestly I love it here, I love having my own space here on the comp doing hw then just messing around and texting people. Sometimes I'm like yeah I wish there was something to do like go hang out with those people and have lunch or just act as kids should but when I get the opportunity I take it and at the end of the day, I prefer to be by myself. I think because I enjoy being by myself, I don't feel lonely being away from home. Even back at home, I talked to myself, hung out with myself, and basically became friends with myself. I'm learning I can seriously be by myself forever and have acquaintances here and there.
Two, the norm is to have friends and have fun so that makes being lonely abnormal but it isn't true. Society seems to flip what really matters to it doesn't matter at all. Yes it is important to socialize because as humans, we need someone to talk to, however, it isn't necessary to have millions of friends. Personally, I want a lot of friends but when it comes down to it, I step away so I think okay is that really what I want? after all, I'm a lot happier when I'm by myself and thinking about stuff. So make sure what you really want.
As long as you are happy with yourself, you'll be healthy and people will come to you because confidence and comfort are key. As I'm here in college, I am learning that I do like my distance as much as I wish I had that group of friends. So I am just being more accepting of the fact that I am an individual and am not meant to have super close friends and all that. So far, its been awkward with the majority of people here but oh f*cken well. Im not gonna stress too much about it but I'll try to be more normal? and you should, too. I really hope you start to think positively because being with yourself is too much fun, you're not missing out on much.

I know the feeling, I've tried countless times to make "proper" friends or should I say "true" friends and in the end it always turns to shit! Don't waste your precious time with friends, trust me! The majority of people are immature, selfish or just plain old bithcy. I'm much a loner in the friend zone but I do have my family. I'm much happier without mates that use and fuck me around.

Wow, I do not get why so many people consider this as normal. What you're doing is very unhealthy.

First off, let me say that there's nothing wrong with introversion. We all need our alone time, some more than others. But if you're leading your entire life without friends, then you're ignoring some of your most basic human needs.

There's an old survivalist saying which states that a man can live for five days without water, five weeks without food and five months without socializing.

I shall introduce you to a friend

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Sorry, that comment wasn't meant to be submitted. I think that that is absolutely normal but unhealthy. Humans definitely need other human being for many reasons... Which I think is essential and very important to us. I would love to be your friend and is in fact annoyed at the people you have tried being friends with as they have brushed you off... That's definitely NOT how I would treat someone, especially if I knew that that person was finding it difficult to communicate with others.. So sorry to hear. All the best!

Hello

I am very much the same as you, but my reason is because I have mild Asperger's Syndrome. It is far more common that people realise. You should get tested for it.

If you live in the Sahara long enough, your body will acclimate itself; find an equilibrium with its new found settings.

The mind does the same. If it finds itself in frantic settings, it'll adjust; if in a state of stagnation, it adjusts to that.

If u feel happy and content with no friends then I guess it's normal. But if u really want friends, wait. The right person will come along and be your friend, therefore accepting who u are and respecting that :D

Its sad. You have not watched TV at all of the children?

I was going to write a similar post. I don't think it sounds too depressing. It takes a lot of effort to keep friends and i just don't have that kind of energy myself. I would never call them and i would barely have time to hang out. I'm down to one friend and even that is a struggle.

I especially don't care to have friends who don't share my interests. It's rather pointless. I sometimes envy people who create relationships in just a few months, our even instantly, but i know that's not for me.

I'm sure I'll have good friends when i'm older, maybe 20 years from now, and that doesn't really bother me.

I do have a family though,.so i think it weighs be beneficial if you atty last have one person to talk to.

Sry but u got canser