Is it normal i don't seem to feel any better?

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I recently stopped talking to someone. We weren't dating or anything but feelings and sexual tension was involved. I fell in love. It ended when I found out he was lying to me. It hurt me a lot. It's been a while and I don't seem to feel any better. I often think about him. I miss him, I miss him a lot. I often catch myself wanting to talk to him again. I still think about having sex with him and all the things we talked about. I want to stop feeling like this. I want to get over it. I try to distract myself and think about something else and it doesn't work. Is this normal? I feel like I'm going feel like this for a long time. Nothing is helping.

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Based on 31 votes (27 yes)
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  • TheArBuilder
    9 years ago

    I think you're in a love-hate relationship. You may never get over it, so may try to be decent friends?

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    • peterrabbyt69
      7 years ago

      Or try a gay relationship.

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  • Dazzie
    12 years ago

    I'm sorry you're going through this. This is a horrible feeling and I know how it feels. Every time you think of him remind yourself that he lied to you. You don't deserve a liar. Nobody does. You can do way better and find someone who will be truthful to you. As for distracting yourself try to practice your favorite hobbies constanly. Avoid spending time alone. If you can't find company go out for a walk, read your favorite book, or any other thing you might be interested in.

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  • ChasingAfterPond<3
    12 years ago

    I can understand why it is hard for you to let go, but you need to. You have to move on from him. I know you cared about him, but he was a liar and if couldn't show you the respect of being honest to you, he is not worth your time. Do not act on your feelings of wanting to talk to him again or have sex with him, you'd just be getting yourself into trouble. Find other activies and people that can help you forget about him and move on.

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  • TareBear20
    12 years ago

    I'm actually going through the same thing. Except he didn't lie to me, kept his feelings from me for a while and shit blew up. Now idk what to do. I've been depressed like you.

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