Is it normal i don't mind being used by him?

This is extremely distressing and shameful.

If you don't mind being someone's cum bucket then go for it.
Not a very good thing to do, but whatever fits your self-esteem.

You just should desperate.

Its up to you, but you dont have to let yourself be used.

You can find a guy no matter what you think.

Very normal for you to be happily submissive to a dominant, high-value man. But this ultimately isn't a fulfilling relationship (not for you), not when his commitment is out of your reach.

The sooner you realize this and start improving yourself and finding a man willing to give you his commitment, the better off you'll be. You don't want to end up a broken woman at 25.

It's fun to be a dirty little sex object. I wish you all the orgasmic pleasures that a happy whore can experience.

I have a male friend with benefits like you nut it should be on equal terms not using you as a sex toy for his gratification.
He is using you don't let him.you are better than that from you post would not surprise me if he wanted to share you with his friends

I guess I was in a vaguely similar situation once. I mean I would fuck this super hot girl. And I had really low self esteem, and didn't get why she wanted to with me. Also used to have a crush on her/still did, and she knew. And she was fucking other guys, which I didn't "know" but I knew.

If you're anything like me any advice will be lost because you're gonna stay in it no matter what.

I also lost my virginity to that girl.

But later I got way more confidence. And realized I was hot and like have since been with girls who maybe aren't as hot on paper, but I was more attracted to. And then you'll have the amazing feeling of another person actually considering your feelings acting on it.

I recently had this girl talk to me first because she lived a couple hours away and we got to hang out every couple of weeks, and then she wanted to kiss this other guy who lived in her town so she spoke to me about it first. I guess I still have a ways to go but it felt really good.

I mean yeah in retrospect I wish I had gotten out ASAP, but I had people telling me that and it fell on deaf ears. So I would just say try to love yourself, even if you can't just trying is still really good. And know how blind you are to how hot you are, especially as a girl, you have NO IDEA, especially the hotter ones.

dont do anything stupid, and I know it is unfathomable, but there will be a time thinking about this guy will make you feel barely anything and you will be getting BETTER dick

Just be careful, my wife has FWB and has been used like this in the past and ended up with her being gang banged against her will by 8 guys. Cops not interested as they said she had consented to sex. Like most no strings attached sexual partnerships will end up in tears for one partner. Get yourself a real guy who loves you for what you are and not a sex toy to play with.

It happens. I have a FWB who I met at my business group. Petite, thin blonde, very pretty, and made no question of what she wants "this" to be, other than a friendship. We have sex once in a while, she's fairly wild, we have a great time, and that's that. I'll get a text or call saying "Hey, you"..Hey you is the sure sign..She's up for it.

I'm a bit guilty of it with her, too. Met her one night at a drugstore, at her request, to help with some card issue, saw how hot she looked in little blue shorts and a tank top, and told her..After we take care of this med thing..Why don't we..Go back to your house..Think you know why.. She went for it.

As long as you are ok with the arrangement, do it. Can always pursue your own guys elsewhere.

Clearly you're struggling with the arrangement. I imagine you'll find it tricky but you should try to put an end to it.

My dear
If, as you say, you look like "Sheldon Cooper`s" girlfriend, then you are one hot mamma!

I assure you that there are many men out there who would just love to fuck you!

If you are enjoying your shenanigans with this scoundrel there is no harm in continuing with them, if however you feel shameful and disgusted with yourself afterwards, then desist from going over to his place for a lay!

You should not demean yourself to get some stiff dick in your pussy...as I said before, you are a hot Momma!

To me, it sounds healthy so long as you truly do find it fun and do not mind being his side hoe.

But do take caution - if you ever feel like this..arrangement? is unequal then end it. If you ever find yourself refusing other peoples sex/relationships OR it becomes a factor in ending a relationship with another, end it. If he ever gets aggressive about it or demanding you do it when you don't want to then end it, and make sure you're not obsessing over him just because he's attractive.

As i said - what info provided sounds healthy but do take caution. or "Its up to you, but you dont have to let yourself be used." are the wise words from an above comment.

This is unacceptable! We should execute him at once!

Friend with benefits. Enjoy.