Is it normal i don't love?

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I just started a new relationship and I've been dating him for a few months . He's a great guy and very good to me but I just feel so apathetic towards love, he tells me he loves me and I say it back and most days I feel like I could love him so much and then the next i feel extremely single like my heart doesn't cling on to his. Im very guarded and caution when it comes to being with men because I don't like the heart ache but I feel as though I'm too cold when it comes to loving him. I care so much about him and I get jealous over him but I don't understand how some days I love him and others I don't believe in love at all.

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Based on 62 votes (39 yes)
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  • Guwap92
    11 years ago

    Well im a guy, and im starting to feel like this towards women. you can blame my ex for that. I gave her my heart and she played with it. and ever sense then, i promise my self to never LOVE again. But yeah its normal.

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  • covert_pursuit
    11 years ago

    It sounds like you have some issues with letting yourself go, or maybe with trust? If you are so afraid of letting go of control (AKA emotional distance) it may be the cause of this.

    If there is nothing in your thoughts, or your past/present that would account for your behaviour (that you can think of), and you feel that it is entirely out of your control, then perhaps you should talk to a doctor. But before doing anything so drastic, I think you should take "short4words"'s advice. Perhaps you can figure it out on your own.

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  • starie
    11 years ago

    I wouldn't say you love him when you don't.

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    Maybe you need to journal and find out why sometimes you feel so blah about love.

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