Is it normal i don't like sex that much anymore?

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I'm a 21 year old girl. I have a boyfriend since I was 15 and we have been together ever since that. He was my first boyfriend and the first person I had sex with and the only one.
We have been together for 6 years now, and I've never had sex with any one else. And somehow I don't like sex that much anymore ..
When he tries to get me on, sometimes I just refuse because I don't feel like it. Sometimes I enjoy it, but mostly after 5 minutes I just can't wait for it to be over because I just don't like it that much anymore..
I was wondering if it was normal ..
It's not about him by the way, because I don't fantasise about having sex with others either, I just don't like sex that much anymore.... I prefer just kissing and making out, but not the intercorse part .. I don't enjoy the part when he gets in to me ..
Is it normal ...? I don't know what to do about it..

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  • pixie44
    8 years ago

    Maybe your lacking that romance part of it? Try to do a date night or something talk about old good times. Maybe a nice restaurant and some wine. Set up like a nice bubble bath, put roses every where, light some scented candles. Get some sex toys if you want ;D

    Do a lot of foreplay like massaging each other kissing each other all over their bodies. Like take your time with it slow it down. Connect with each other and try making love rather than just sex, if that makes sense.

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    Sex is just as much mental and psychological as it is physical. If you are not wanting sex, then you should really think about the feelings you have for your boyfriend. And see if you still love and care him as much as you used to, or if something has changed in either of your lives.

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  • Statsmashers
    8 years ago

    Whats wrong with his COCK & NUTS ?

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  • Gspyder
    8 years ago

    It's not normal for a 21 year old. I'd recommend eating better if you don't already because that's one thing a lot of junk food can do, also a lot of times it's a side effect of medications like antidepressants. You should bring it up to your doctor and see if they can make any suggestions

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    What an incredibly sad post. At 21 you are tired of sex and "after 5 minutes I just can't wait for it to be over"? You are at the same place a married couple might find themselves after 6 years together and a few kids.
    Well, sorry to tell you this, but it's all your fault, and his. As I keep saying, sex is not something ANYONE has a natural talent for; one must get a lot of experience. How would you expect anything interesting, different and exciting to come out of a monogamous relationship between two inexperienced children (even if they are now adults)?
    Laying there like a limp rag, being a receptacle for his sperm, isn't a whole lot of fun for him either, I'm sure. So, in time, he will have an affair.
    My suggestion would be for you two to agree to take a break from each other, rather than waiting for an ugly break up. If you are meant to be together, then you will get back together; if not, then oh well, that's life. But at least you should be able to rekindle your interest in sex after a few new partners, which if you do get back together, will greatly improve your relationship and intimacy.

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  • Darkoil
    8 years ago

    Lol he is that shit he has completely turned you off sex.

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    • regisphilbin
      8 years ago

      lol whats what i was wondering too

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  • Redcoats
    8 years ago

    There could be a reason behind this. What changed if I may ask?

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    • diditso
      8 years ago

      It started about 2 years ago, I don't remember there was something that happened, I just started to like it less and less.. Where first we would have sex often, now we had sex like 1 or 2 times a month because I didn't feel like it that much anymore. And now past November he broke up with me, and he slept with another girl in the time that we were not together. But then he regretted breaking up with me and we are back together since januari. And in the beginning we had sex alot, but now it's back at how it was first. And actually even worse, because everytime he wants sex with me I'm thinking about that other girl he slept with several times ... I just can't get that out of my head..
      But that's an 'extra' bacause before that happened I already had this problem..

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      • Redcoats
        8 years ago

        Unfortunately, I'd say it's time you guys went your separate ways.

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  • Statsmashers
    8 years ago

    Let him FUCK you up your ass and then give his COCK & NUTS a wicked blowjob.

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  • peterr2
    8 years ago

    You should at least suck him off and swallow his cum too.

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