Is it normal i don't like a sweet guy?

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I met a guy a few months back. We hit off pretty well right from the start. But then I did notice that he came on abit clingy and close even when we first started hanging out. At that point, I just assumed that it was just the way he is and that we could still hang out as friends. Slowly we became closer and I could tell he liked me, but I didn't like him. Because he never said anything we continued seeing each other. One day I decided that he might be hurt, so I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship. We went through a couple of ups and downs after that but we're still close. Despite this, we are not together and I don't know if we will ever be. I cannot figure out my feelings for him. He treats me really well but somehow I don't like him because he seems like a clingy person (is this normal?) and he is way too sweet to me. I like someone who doesn't need to be sweet but yet I know we love each other. IIN?

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  • DwayneHicks
    13 years ago

    I would consider myself a nice guy and you know what I have learned...nice guys finish last...it seems like you have to a complete asshole to get the respect of a girl...I will never understand that.

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    • anotherredsheep
      13 years ago

      Thinking that nice guys finish last is a really sad thing :( I don't think that nice guys finish last. It's the nice and nothing else but nice guys that finish last. Everyone loves a person who's nice. But you need to have personality, and you need to look for a person who loves your personality.

      I think most girls would like a guy who's nice and yet playful and fun to be around with? Confidence in yourself really is important too, so go find stuff that you like to do and spend more time learning about yourself to boost your own confidence!

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      • regisphilbin
        8 years ago

        that was very eloquently stated

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    • 2ftykk
      12 years ago

      u have to push this bitches, who r pulling u. litteraly push and there is nothing wrong with that. someone need more push, some less. if the girl is pretty sweet already u can just kick back and relax, the bitchy ones u need to push hard.

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  • starkitty
    13 years ago

    im super clingy too...dont say :"im not ready for a relationship right now." say "i dont want a relationship with you." if you're gonna turn him down- "not ready" or "not now" sounds like "maybe later." thats leading him on, and that will hurt him more than downright rejection in the long run. date him only if you mean it. don't pity date. warning: if you decide to date him, he'll probably be the jealous type. make sure to pay loads of attention to him and act uninterested around your other freinds...pay attention to which ones make him jealous too. it's often easier to hang out with couples because they won't trigger his jealousy

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Try a black guy

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  • Dannicker
    10 years ago

    Sounds like maybe you just need a little more space than him? This is okay, just tell him, he will appreciate it.

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  • 2ftykk
    12 years ago

    then unclinge him. be more nice and sweet urself, do ur work! balance it out a bit. nothing wrong with the guy who wants to treat u good.

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  • howaminotmyself
    13 years ago

    Well is he sincere? Some people are just nice. The world may seem like it is full of assholes but there are genuinely good people out there.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i only read the title but sweet guys are nice

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  • black_houzi
    13 years ago

    I like this quote "Every man is afraid of something. That's how you know he's in love with you; when he's afraid of losing you". You should tell him that you like him but you need a bit of space. Still hang with him though.

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