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so my boyfriend and I are doing fine in our relationship (not arguing or fighting)but I'm starting to just see him as my friend and not my boyfriend. I feel horrible of even thinking of breaking up because he is such a nice guy and he's stressing with other problems right now. If I tell him how I feel, it will stress him even more.
I wonder why people break up with eachother just because it's not what it used to be? These days relationships end over nothing. Honestly, every relationship you ever go into is going to slow down, and if by chance it slows down and you find that without the bf/gf aspects you can still be friends, then it's probably a great relationship. You can go ahead and dump him if you want, you will likely find another boyfriend and all the spark will be there. Unfortunately, you'll be back at square 1 when it's over, and you may not get along with this guy even on a friendly level when that happens. I recommend you try to spark up the relationship you already have if he's a good guy.
This, exactly.
@OP
For most relationships, the passion and excitement does die down. I personally was very pleased with that development in my relationship because I hate the feeling of my heart fucking racing with excitement when I got a text from my then boyfriend and that horrible sadness you feel when you are not around them.
Honestly, if you guys still love each other, you are good friends and he treats you right, then you're golden. Sounds like a good relationship. However, if you need that constant excitement and you can't be happy just being in a loving relationship and you can't learn to make your own fun and excitement in the relationship then you might not be ready to settle into one.