Is it normal i don't feel like i could date other guys?

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I was kind of going out with this guy I met online. I went to see him twice and he came to see me once. (he lives out of state). I really liked him and feel like I won't meet anyone else like him. But about a week and a half ago we mutually called off whatever relationship we were in since our personalities are like polar opposite and we live so far away. Now I feel like I want a boyfriend, but I also don't want a boyfriend. I wanted to be with this guy so badly because he had amazing goals and was so intelligent. It's almost as if I'm turned off to other men because this guy was so amazing to me. Is this normal? I've been feeling sad about it although the whole thing was only about six months. I don't know how I will find any other guy I want to date when I thought this guy was so amazing =(

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  • coreyknows
    12 years ago

    i felt the same way one time....... its normal but someday you will get over it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I know how you feel I liked this guy and to me even now it seems like im never gonna find or like anyone else because of this guy I liked.

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  • NCman89
    13 years ago

    Yeah I think its normal especially if it just ended recently but I think you'll find someone with great goals and qualities with a personality to match yours within reasonable distance long distance relationships are hard to handle anyhow.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Oh my gosh. I had the same problem! I was talking to this guy for 2 years long distance. We had our ups and downs, and eventually we decided to call the whole thing off. We haven't talked since early march, but I got over it quick, because I went on vacation to Florida and met a bunch of new guys and friends! This just makes you realize, through your life you will meet so many new people. And just think. If you thought he was the right person for you but then things didn't work and you moved on, how beautiful will it be when you are with the real right person?

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    Every ones different with different things to offer. U will meet some one else. Just have to get out there an u won't think of your ex so much.

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  • Tomoke
    13 years ago

    You'll probably find someone other in your live who's as sweet as him =D

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  • georgienne
    13 years ago

    If the relationship that I'm in ever ended, I'd probably chose to stay single forever. I've an amazing thing going right now, nothing will compare.
    So, maybe not normal, but not unique.

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