Is it normal i decided i do not like people?

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I use to have a lot of friends and use to hook up a lot. I really did not like most of the people I dated and overall everyone just kind of annoyed me. I was weird as a child and I did not understand human emotion at all. So I studied it till I did and tried to copy other people in order to fit in. My friends all now getting married and starting families. I realized I really do not care to and do not want one. I feel like I should care but right now a family just sounds annoying and I don't think I would put in the effort for one. I have many opportunities to get a partner but I do not see the point. I don't understand what is so alluring about a relationship. Is it normal to not want a partner or family?

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Based on 81 votes (60 yes)
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  • fukpeople
    10 years ago

    I completly feel the same way however I'm 18...though I have never had a relationship nor do I have the desire for one what so ever and I fear I may be this way for most my life :O I see no point in it, I also have trust issues and believe that EVERYONE are liars...

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  • Karmasbitch
    10 years ago

    I think having a family and a good relationship would be awesome. Not normal to me, but I'm sure there are a lot like you.

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  • Bonefrost
    8 years ago

    I feel the same.Too much work,and I have my own issues.No way I could run or be part of a healthy family,even if it was just a long term girlfriend.I'm 46 and stoked I never had kids.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    I think everyone's just trolling you lol I think that's normal. I personally love being in a relationship. If you find the right person it's like having a best friend you can get along with 24/7 I don't want to get married or have children though. I don't see the appeal either. The way I see it, we're happy the way we are without a wedding ring, and the person living upstairs form me owns a day care. I hear those rug rats up there -.- I'm not stupid enough to want a child, the worlds over populated as it is

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  • Hottigene
    10 years ago

    Thats why I asked you If you ever had those thoughts its not normal to not like all people in General!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      You assume not wanting a family and not wanting to get married makes you a serial killer. Are you fucking retarded? Sorry never-mind I would be insulting truly retarded people who are probobly a lot smarter.

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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans
    10 years ago

    Well the title is misleading you said you decided to not like people and then you go on about how you start a feud with your family and how u dont want a family methinks your either a typical attention whore or got a few screws loose.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      When did this mention any of that? I said I do not want a family. As in I do not want to get married and have kids. How many children do you have? I bet you don't even know you just like sleeping around.

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      • andiforoncedonthatehumans
        10 years ago

        oh damn youre right i made a mistake and made myself look like a dork lol!

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  • Bumblebee2013
    10 years ago

    Have you been tested for autism?

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  • Hottigene
    10 years ago

    You Sound like a Social Deviant have you ever had violent thoughts about hurting people or Killing.them.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      what the fuck? I never said anything about killing people or violent thoughts. I said I do not want a family I never said I was going to hurt someone. What the fuck is your issue? Yes not wanting a family means serial killer. Are you really that stupid?

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