Is it normal i cry after sex with one guy but not with another?

I dated my x boyfriend for 4yrs everything with good but when we would have sex I would always cry every time we finished having sex. It wasn't just a few tears before bed; it was a river of sobs that left him feeling like if he had hurt me or embarrassed me or possibly even offended me. It was awful. I did love him ( we didn't beake up cuz of this) soo...why would I cry?

That brought me to the local library because whenever I have a problem, I research it extensively. I found several psychology books that talked about women who cry after sex, and I read read up on it until I thought I understood.

A lil info::It seems that women who cry after sex sharesomething in common with women who experience post-partum depression. Horomones are powerful chemicals in the body, and when they rise or fall drastically, it can cause emotional highs and lows after sex, during pregnancy, after birth and during menopause. The same thing happens during PMS.

But the question is now that I'm in a new relationship I DONT CRY AT ALL..... plz help I'm sooo confused

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  • forever_anon

    It's not uncommon. How did you feel afterward? The crying may be a clue to your feelings for that person. I have had a similar experience as yours. With most of my partners I never cried, but there were one or two that I have cried with. Usually, it stemmed from underlying issues in the relationship.

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  • kelili

    Maybe you have no more tears to shed. Lol

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  • fullhouse

    May be the sex meant more to you before and now it's not that special?

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  • x1frosty16

    Maby your hormones rose higher cause the sex was better lol

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