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I frequently gain and lose weight because I yo-yo diet all the time, which is bad. But with the weight gain also decreases my need to want to have sex. I avoid men & prefer to hide in baggy clothing that will make people think I am a lesbian. And stay indoors most of my time, and don't enjoy going out meeting people mostly men.
Yes. But yo-yo-ing. That's not healthy. Try the traditional Chinese diet or The China Diet. http://www.livestrong.com/article/195292-traditional-chinese-diet/#page=1
And there's a book. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1932100660/ref=redir_mdp_mobile?pc_redir=T1
Stop the yo-yo diets. They are a waste of time. Go to http://www.bodyrock.tv/ They will lead you in a good direction in regards to food and to weight loss.
I found this site almost three years ago and it changed my life for the better.
Even though I will tell you that the best thing to do is to accept yourself the way you are and carry yourself with more confidence and comfort; I know that wearing the baggy clothes makes you feel better about yourself because of the fact that others cannot notice it that way as opposed to tighter and better-suited clothes.
However, make sure that you know what you want to do with your body. If it makes you feel that bad, then the best thing to do is change it and your diet. Make a plan and make sure that you stick to it and work really hard for what you want to achieve.
Go to the website and you will not regret doing it. It takes time for people to get where they want to be, but that cannot be done without working hard.
It's a vicious circle. Sex is good exercise and also releases the happy chemicals that you're replacing with eating. Balance, in all things!