Is it normal i check out other girls?

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So I'm an 18 year old girl, and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and I love him to death and never want to be apart from him, but, I am bisexual and I check out other girls...... a lot. I have a few crushes and there are girls that take my breath when I'm near them, like I'm awkward and crushing again, though I don't want to be with them. I truly love my boyfriend, and he knows I'm bi and look at girls (not that I have crushes though) and I feel really really really guilty looking at people besides him. Is it normal I still look at girls when I'm with the guy I'm going to marry? I plan on spending my life with him, but I cant help myself around pretty girls...

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  • truercheese
    11 years ago

    I'm a completely straight girl with a boyfriend and I even check out girls. I check out everyone lol.

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  • Shakeydays
    11 years ago

    Suppressing you desires is a tough thing to do. Your are controlling it with guilt and fear. I say talk to your bf about it. A lot of people are open minded and really want to make you happy by working on your desires.

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  • annm2361
    11 years ago

    If ur honest with ur boyfriend and faithful why does it hurt to have fantasies about it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I feel bad for your boyfriend. Being in a relationshit with a lesbian in denial sucks.

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    • TheRealHershey
      11 years ago

      Oh, I'm sorry, I couldn't hear you over her FREEDOM. Ignorant asshole.

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  • yourcompanion
    11 years ago

    Show me a guy who doesn't want a threesome and I'll show you a liar. You should both find a third and make it a menage a trois. Share the love. I doubt your boyfriend will have any objections

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  • PatrickZ
    11 years ago

    Instead of feeling guilty about it I think you should see the benefit of it. You can check out hot girls together with your bf, because I'm sure he does so too. As long as it stays with checking them out I don't see any problems. Just be honest with each other.

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