Is it normal i cant make a decision?

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Am 30. Accomplished nothing. Very lonely. I failed in life miserably and am sure there is no turning back. I just keep on asking myself why I was born and frankly, I know the only one who remembers I exist is my mom. The only thing that hurts the most is that after all that she did to raise me, i failed and failed her totally. I donno why I am alive today.

I have made terrible choices in the past. Am over them. Is making a choice between living and dying that hard?

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  • JD777
    9 years ago

    Read up on some of the most successful/notable people in history. Tons of them accomplished little in their early years only to have their successes in their 30s, 40s, 50s, or even after 60.

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  • noid
    9 years ago

    Yes, it's normal.

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  • theseeker
    9 years ago

    Sooner or later life pulls you in, makes you choose to either sink or swim. It's never too late to turn your life around. If you just give up and convince yourself nothing will ever change, then it won't. There is hope, but you have to believe it first. Even though it might seem like it's not worth it, it's times like this you have to keep fighting and usually good things happen.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Sounds like you've pretty much fallen as far as you can. The bright thing is you've only up from here. Up isn't a bad direction.
    You literally can choose ANY thing you wish to do right now, correct? There is apparently nothing holding you back. Go travel. See the Grand Canyon, cross the continental divide, the Mississippi River. Go work in a boon town in North Dakota. Get on a fishing boat in Alaska.
    ANYTHING you want to do is in front of you. Perhaps all the shit is behind, for a while, anyway.
    Otherwise that other choice you are considering is oblivion; nothing, nada, zero, zilch. If you think it gets better after death, you are wrong.
    This is your one and only guarantied life; live it.

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  • Anonymous200
    9 years ago

    Harland Sanders didn't achieve success until near the end of his life! You're only thirty, you still have time. The most successful people are the ones who keep failing over and over again, but get back up every time. Go out and make friends, see if you can change your career. If you really feel stuck, go to a therapist to sort your life out. Good luck.

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  • 213
    9 years ago

    there's someone around the world worser than you, dont give up , @JD777 good talk awesome comment

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