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its not like am a gold digger or something but i have never been with a broke guy in this case i mean jobless,i hate guys that dont do something or depend on others...iin?
Hmm yeah and women should be pretty and lose weight if they consider dating. It's only fair.
If a prostitute asked me "is it normal that I refuse a client who is broke?", my answer would be "yes, it is normal".
In case of romantic relationships, hopefully more variables enter the scene. On the other hand, evolutionary biologists would argue that earning power of the man in question (or his potential qualities as a provider) has always been one of them. Whether it is sad or not, it might be biologically and statistically normal also for our species. And whether the exceptions should be applauded or frowned upon is another question. Personally, I would applaud them, and no, I am not a jobless person.
hahaha intresting convo....but honestly if someone does nothing with their life why would i date them??
Some women really seem to have no brains, no emotions, no libido and instead of those things they have a big calculator assessing the guy´s financial prospects. And if you think that I have this opinion because I am a desperate unsuccessful guy who became a misogynist for that reason, you are wrong. I am a woman.
I couldn't date a guy who wasn't doing anything with his life. If he's not working or in school full time working towards a goal or *something* productive and he doesn't have a good reason for it then I am not interested. I don't want to be the only thing going on in his life because he sure as hell would not have been the only thing going on in my life.
As far as being broke goes, it's not so bad if he is actually doing something to improve his life, but if he's doing jack shit nothing then no.
And yes, I feel that anyone is perfectly justified to hold the same standard towards women as well.
am not being a sexist somethings just have to come naturally...like isnt it so awkward when the lady is working and the guy just at home being bossed around because he has no money of his own.....
Like you i have never dated a broke guy. I think it's a shame for a guy not to be financially independent and I don't like to share. I think that women looks for security and in this modern era money is the security.
I see your point. Men are usually more confident and secure when they have money and they know they can take you out to dinner or whatever without any problem. This usually makes the woman feel happy and comfortable too.
You'll end up getting raped or killed one day anyway, so someone will get their money back.
thats kinda tricky but as far as i'm concernd the guy should have much than i do have....
Oh is that so? I suppose you better get off the computer and put on your pretty floral apron and prepare a meal before your glorious breadwinner of the household gets upset and lock you in the kitchen for being a feminist.
Hello?! This is 2012, we are equals within society.
Don't matter a b ain't getting a dime of my money even if I was a billionaire
Yes, totally normal. BTW a recent survey said that 67% of women would not marry their boyfriend if he was unemployed.
getting confused here......:)but i get all your points amigos.....and they have truth in them....
What about a guy that doesn't have to work for more than a week or two a month. And even at that can still be in his dressing gown when everyone else heads out the door to work and not start until 10 or 11 when he does have to work.
Would that give girls the shits- that's me?
I work to only work part time. That's how I want to live and have mostly. I love my spare time , lots and lots of it. Hate 9 to 5 .
So I work for myself and with what I do it takes a weeks work or so to earn my months wage. After that I kick back, work on my property , get out and about.
I usually start another job every 2-3 wks. That earns what everyone else earns 9-5 whatever for a month.
But sometimes I feel like a bum or unfair bc it's always like I'm not working.
it is normal and here is why, women want an alpha male. Long time ago, alpha male was required to catch meat to feed his family, nowadays he doesn't do that anymore but he brings money and is a sort of 'base' for a family, whether woman works or not. So if a man has the ability to earn money he is therefore capable alpha male, and women find it attractive. Main reason women go for alpha males is feeling they are safe. So yes, pefectly normal. Should say I am a female who is going to marry dirt poor guy next year, but it is ridiculous to say that it isn't normal. It doesn't get more normal.
Eh, well for me. In my past relationships, I have dated broke guys and none broke guys. But I don't think of it as not doing anything or depending on others. It's just me, I haven't really thought about money. Where I am, It's so difficult to find a job. My boyfriend, doesn't have a job. But he still does community service, goes to school, etc. Having no job or a job really hasn't been a big deal for me at all.