Is it normal i cant cum with him inside me?

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why cant i orgasm while a man is inside me....is everyone else just faking it? I have been sexually active since 17 ...3 kids....I have had over 20 partners and I have never cum while penetrated. I am married have been and I am only 32 and I constantly think if its someone else just maybe but I know that's not true bc I never did in the past. I've told doctors read ton of books tried tricks. I can cum on my own, with oral, I can even use a dildo and cause myself to cum so I know all my body parts work...I'm very vocal I say what feels good and yet nothing...am I the only one tire dt of lying and faking it...its been a lifetime!

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Not every woman orgasms from the same thing.

    You may find clitoral stimulation more satisfying than vaginal. That's OK. But it does not mean other women are faking it just because it's different for you.

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    hm. i don't fake it, but you are definitely not alone.

    still, i'd have 2 more questions to your story:

    a.: do you take a long time to climax? As in, if you stimulate yourself, how long does it take you until you are there?

    b.: can you not come simply from vaginal stimulation or not at all when he's inside? In other words: If he is inside and you focus on stimulating your clitoris, are you still unable to come?

    I'm lucky enough to be able to climax from vaginal stimulation, but even women who can't USUALLY can come from clitoral stimuli WHILE having vaginal intercourse. If that does not work for you, there may be a mental reason. I am not even talking repressed memories here or something, but maybe your years-long experiences have built up a negative expectation, a wall if you so like?

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    • asburns
      12 years ago

      Hi Terryvie
      Ok so a. Nope not longerthan seconds im actually quite disappointed i cum so fast bc i know i may not get this feeling agin for a while. If he gives me head a lil longer i have to thin k of sexual things so it lasts maybe up to 4-5 mins.

      B. I have cum from vaginal stimulation as i mentiioned vaginal soldier inserted makes me cum rather fast and I can stimulate myself with thrusts to cum but no I have never been able to concentrate on rubbing my four while he is inside me . They are so Emmy demanding I'm usually in a position or giving head or doing something else that is ok but it ddoesnt exactly get me there ya know...what frustrated me is I am a Scorpio so we are sexual by nature so I constantly think of sex but when the time comes I know I'm not going to have much fun is rather not instead I may make excuse or daydream during. I think I definetly desperately want to find out why bc if my husband knew these things his male ego would go running for the door! Thanks for the reply

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    I fake it. You're not alone on this.

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    • asburns
      12 years ago

      I tell my husband more than half of womam (of course im not sure of a percentage it may be more or less)do but he refuses so many can pull off such a scam and plus why would so many not love his wonderful 9 inches.lol. i know size has nothing to do with it but thanks for the reply

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      • lc1988
        12 years ago

        Eh I heard more average sized penises are better for hitting the g spot so maybe that's our problem.

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