Is it normal i cant breathe when i hug my crush?

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All I feel is my heart pound.. I am in love and I know it but it is also sad to know that I will only have about 3 more months of it.. I cant go all summer, I could barely go Christmas break (16 days) I cry over the weekends.. I cry t the thought of losing her..She Is my everything.. she cares about me and I care about her.. I bought her a carnation and she immediately put it right In a vase.. Our eye contact is so deep and lovely.. I love her!!! I NEED HER and I cant stand the thought of losing her :'(

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  • Pika-girl
    10 years ago

    The last time my crush hugged me, it was a suprise hug on the side of my waist... It really hurt... But I felt incredibly happy!

    Then, the next day, I gave him one of my tight hugs as revenge. He enjoyed it, laughed, and said that he deserved it.

    I'm still in the Friend Zone, but getting there! We're best friends! Yesterday (3/21/14), he made a comic book club, where you make your own comics, he chose me as vice president and not his crush (my friend, she's the advertiser along with my best friend)! Aw yeah! Then, I was accepted by taking an interview quiz, and there was a question: Are you my one of my best friends? I didn't know how to answer that, so I asked him: Do you see me as a best friend? He said: Well, duh! Pft... Hm... Yeah!
    Heehee! He was trying to hide his feelings!

    ...Woah! How'd I get from hugs to quizzes? Hugs and quizzes (kisses)!

    I felt your story. It's very sweet!

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  • RikSchols
    10 years ago

    cut yourself, believe me it helps

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    • Coltcobra
      9 years ago

      No.

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  • green_boogers
    10 years ago

    Whew. The future is going to be rough. Buckle your seat belt.

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    • flawlessbabe_xoxo
      10 years ago

      Any advice on how to deal with it?

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      • green_boogers
        10 years ago

        I suppose you could Google up "How to Handle a Breakup". Be sure to allow yourself to grieve without falling into self-pity. Your heart will heal at its own rate. Have faith that the world will someday seem fresh, quietly alive, and it will echo with gentle opportunity.

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        • jeremybrown50k
          10 years ago

          Actually despite what todays filthy society has become, not everyone has a break up. Some relationships last till death. People are getting more selfish and thus genuine relations are getting lost. But those who loves their lover as much if not more than their ownselves (deny all you want but this relations have existed and to a lesser extent still exist)never breaks up and looks for another person in his/her entire life and their relation not only last till death but their love exists forever along with history, young selfish people like you will never understand...

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          • green_boogers
            10 years ago

            Until we become widows and grieve. BTW, best of luck to the OP and his "crush".

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      • jeremybrown50k
        10 years ago

        Dont believe him, if you two truely love each other get married and be by each others side as long as you live...

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