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So lately I've started to feel a change in who I am. And I feel like im growing in a way my boyfriend hates. I love him very much and I've been with him for 2 years but, I have this feeling of being with someone else a different spectrum of what I'm becoming. Does that make sense? I want to stay with my boyfriend I'm just confused, help.
More than likely, you're maturing and your boyfriend isn't. It's time to find someone else.
You may need to challenge him with what explicitly is going on. That way he has a chance to accept and respect you - or move on one way or the other. That is only if you think he is salvageable.
How is it that your changing? because people do change it's part of maturing and becoming older, but do you feel like its not just your boyfriend but your family and friends also that do not feel good about the changes? If so, ask yourself what's been going on lately in life and how it's affected your state of mind. However, you shouldn't be with someone who isn't happy with you. It's not healthy and it's not what a relationship is suppose to mean. You should both be happy and accepting of one another. 2 years is a long time and it is difficult to separate from that person but really maybe it is for the best, look forward to the future.good luck!
People change which changes their relationships, for better or for worse. It happens.
Love isn't everything in a relationship. If you feel like he's not happy with who you are becoming then it would be in your best interest to split up. If you are happy with the changes you see in yourself don't force yourself to stay with this guy just because you love him. You were together for two years, that's a pretty good run. Now maybe its over. Have you talked to him about it? People change, people grow apart or just begin to take different paths in life. I think too often people feel the need to work on relationships that just aren't going to get anywhere. Huge waste of time. Its not the end of the world. Really, it didn't happen :p