Is it normal i can't stop thinking of her?

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I had been dating this girl (I'm a girl too) for almost two years but almost 8 months ago she broke up with me. I still love her but she's obviously moved on since she's dating someone else but it hurts because she still sees me as a best friend. I just can't get over her and I miss her and being with her. I had started to move on but after talking to her for an hour on the phone everything just rushed back. I know when we broke up she said she still loved me but we both were hiding our relationship because our families are homophobic and she felt it was wrong. Why can't I get over her? Is this normal?

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Based on 41 votes (35 yes)
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  • opal-leaves
    12 years ago

    You need to first of all STOP TALKING TO HER! I know it's going to suck but heyy... TIME HEALS all! It's hard for everyone. No one wants to break up, we lose a part of ourselves, a part of out lives. It's totally normal to feel like you miss her. Just please talk to her (if she's the one that goes looking for you) & just say "hey, I really need to move on & I just want some time for myself because talking to you makes things worse for me". If that person truly cares for you, they'll understand & definitely give you all the time they need! So go ahead, talk, let her know how you feel. & MOVE ON, there's things we can't control in this world & in this case, you can't control the feelings this girl has or had for you.

    Take care & hope things get better :)

    S.

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    I disagree with opal. If you truly love her you will love her no matter what and if you are a true friend you will still be with her no matter what. Do not let a relationship ruin things for you. You seem to care about her a lot do not leave her over this. True loyalty means you will stay with her always. it will hurt for awhile but you will be ok soon. If you leave her now it shows that you are not a real friend and all that mattered was the relationship.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    Normal dude-ette, and totally rockin that you were going out with another chick. Right on

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