Is it normal i can't stop gawking at girls when i am with my wife?

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When I take my wife out dancing, I position myself so I can stare at young girls without her seeing. My wife has started to notice this, and she says I look like I want to boing each one of them, which makes her uncomfortable, and the girls uncomfortable. I say I am just looking, she says it is the way I look, that I look at them like they are a Porterhouse steak, and want to eat them up. I do have a history of flirting with gals younger than me.

It is getting to a point where she is ready to leave me because I won't change and she is tired of feeling disrespected in public. She feels I want to meet these girls because of my prolong stares and smiles. She says once they are friends I can try to get in there pants.

I admit I love to look at women and fantasize, and I have done it for so long it is just second nature. I know I do it with her, but I can't seem to stop. What to do?

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  • RainbowDischarge
    10 years ago | pl

    How about you stop? Why can't you direct that attention to your wife? You're hurting her feelings. Maybe she'll get fed up and leave you for a young stud.

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    • RomeoDeMontague
      10 years ago

      ^ This

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  • JayPr'zBaddest
    10 years ago | pl

    You show all that attention to these young girls that don't even have interest in you yet your wife is right in front of you and puts up with your shit...smh

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago | pl

    "but I can't seem to stop" Boo fucking hoo. 'Bout time to grow up there fella. Or lose your wife, and I bet you that if she does go, not one of those young honeys will have any interest in a loser like you.
    The grass ALWAYS looks greener on the other side of the fence.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      I'll have to agree with this.

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  • tori
    10 years ago | pl

    My husband did that when we were first married. I was really PO'd. I got him to stop when I finally had enough. He was staring and staring at this girl. I stepped back from him and yelled over to the lady, "Hey! My husband wants you!" She looked at me then him and walked off. I walked off also. I took a cab home. He never did it again.
    I don't care if he looks. It bothers me when he stares forever.

    What to do to stop? JUST STOP! Or you will be single.

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  • MissDethstar
    10 years ago

    You married her, isn't it because you love her ? Because you find her beautiful above all others ? Yes it's normal to look a bit, other people are attractive too, but eye-fucking young girls like you do ? On top of hurting your wife it is disrespectful to look at these young girl like they are a piece of meat(also very awkward). You're ridiculous, you could stop if you wanted to, which is obviously not the case.

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  • TwoThumbs
    10 years ago

    Yeah dude....you get caught like once or twice a year...not every day. You have a problem if you can't NOT do it. You can glance, but staring is creepy.

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  • Agirlsbestfriend.
    10 years ago

    Cut his eyes out and staple them to your tits.

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  • st2013de
    10 years ago

    You obviously don't want to be with her..

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    I start sharting in my pants if I look elsewhere

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  • YourMomSaysHello
    10 years ago

    This man is behaving completely natural yet everyone in the comments seem to judge him. The only mistake he made was that he got married.

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  • ThisIsImpossible
    10 years ago

    Maybe you're just now realizing marriage was bullshit brainwashed into your head as a child, or maybe you're an asshole. Which ever one is easier for you to accept within yourself will work fine.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    First, you come off sounding like a leering perv.
    I suggest you learn to control yourself. If you cant at least wear sunglasses or something so youre not extremely obvious. How would you like if your wife ogled young guys bulging jeans?

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    Dude I feel bad for you. Too bad you're not in college anymore where the girls are hot and easy and commitment is a foreign language

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  • Mr.Dr.Prof.Patrick
    10 years ago

    Your problem is that you are getting caught. We are better than this brah.

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  • Derpinism
    10 years ago

    What you are doing is completely natural but try not to stare. Learn to do it so that your wife never suspects anything. Girls with boyfriends do the same thing, trust me. I see it every day.

    just don't make it so obvious

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  • Iwannasd
    10 years ago

    Try sucking cock

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    • peterr
      10 years ago

      Good comment. I am not allowed to talk like that on here anymore.

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