Is it normal i can't stand my fiancé?

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I've been with my fiancée for a little over 2 years. She's lied to me on several occasions. Like taking her ex out for a birthday dinner, and lying about dating this said ex saying that they were "just roommates" even though that girl proposed to her before she and I got together. She's also lied about getting fired from jobs in the past. She's a Scorpio and she rubs me in a way that I feel she is very sneaky. She says she has no friends which I find odd. We're both 33 and in the beginning of our relationship I had a lot of friends but she was jealous of them so I stopped talking to them pretty much completely except for a hey how are you text every once in a while.
Lately I feel like I can't stand seeing her, looking at her, talking to her etc. what to do?

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  • funlovingbitch
    7 years ago

    Ditch the bitch

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    If your relationship doesn't work out now, what makes you think marriage will fix anything? Matters will only get worse, only now you will have exchanged the rings. I always say, before anyone should even think about getting married, they need to have a strong friendship with that person first because living with someone you can't stand isn't going to be easy. If you marry this woman now, it won't be long before the two of you are stressing over a divorce. I say, marriage isn't such a good idea. If you don't have a friendship, love just isn't enough.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    11 years ago

    So... why is she your fiancee again?

    Seriously.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Never marry a Scorpio, unless you're a water sign.

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  • yesnomaybeso
    11 years ago

    DUMP, DEFINITELY
    You stopped talking to your friends because of her, but she keeps meeting up with her ex. It makes no sense. I really think she's not worth it.

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    • Punky79
      11 years ago

      The ex thing happened about a year and a half ago I found out about it 6 months later when we were moving in together. I found the shopping list from that day which included a card, candles, and a cake. How fucking cute. As far as I know now she doesn't speak to her.
      I just don't know if I should trust her and rack it up as a mistake and forgive it.

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  • Punky79
    11 years ago

    She tells me I should go to therapy so I can get over her indiscretions. She swears she loves me and she won't lie any more. Should I believe her or once a liar always a liar?

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    • Darkoil
      11 years ago

      You know what they say. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Just marry her and lay in the queen size coffin that was built for two

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    It seems as if you are stuck with an immature and vile girl. Better get off this train before it's too late.

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