Is it normal i can't stand being around people more and more?

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It's gotten worse over the months. I either get angry if someone talks to me or if I am forced to be around people/talk to people (work, visits, phone calls, walking my dog, checking the mail, driving).

Other times I'm just afraid, but it's strange because it's more like a feeling of paranoia as if I feel like they are going to attack me. I feel like I'm always being watched.

I dont even like talking to family or friends or being around my dog.

I've recently gotten more hours at work and I just dont think I can handle it for much longer. I go in every day anxious or angry or sad or I soon become one of the three. I guess I can say I get mood swings too. I might come into work in a great mood then a couple hours later I suddenly realize I feel really upset/sad that I could kill myself. Then I start to panic and try to avoid running into people; I've been close to just leaving and never coming back.

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Based on 75 votes (40 yes)
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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    It sounds like you may be developing a chemical imbalance in your brain that is manifesting in the form of social anxiety or depression. You should seek professional help for this because it is obviously starting to impede your ability to function during your usual, daily activities.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I think you are correct. I didn't mention in my story but I get into really good moods out of the blue too. Like right now! :D I feel amazing and I'm going to work and I'm actually really excited about it. Xo This is why I always resist making an appointment with a psychiatrist....When I'm in a good mood I think I can do anything and that I was just overreacting, then in my bad moods I'm too afraid to call and make an appointment because I'm nervous and depressed. (No motivation)

      Thank you. (Haha I just imagined you as a sailor scout coming to my aid!) :P Sailor IIN Neptunian!

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      • Shackleford96
        11 years ago

        To me, it sounds like you could possibly have something like bi-polar disorder.

        I agree with the others, you should definitely see a professional and get that checked out before it gets any worse.

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        11 years ago

        I'm a huge Sailor Moon fan :D

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  • Doktor_Hildred_Von_Steinmann
    11 years ago

    Sounds serious to me. Could be depression, stress, anxiety or all three. I'd take a long vacation or go see someone.

    Yours truely,

    Doktor Hildred Von Steinmann

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Ah thanks Sir! V

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      • Doktor_Hildred_Von_Steinmann
        11 years ago

        You are very welcome, my good sir/madam. I wish you all the best in health and for the future.

        Yours truly,

        Doktor Hildred Von Steinmann

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  • jermath35
    11 years ago

    Eat healthier man...good food puts u in a positive mood... Also start meditation NOT medication

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  • DanishGirl
    11 years ago

    It sounds like you've been through something horrible in your life...some sort of trauma maybe...get some help...life is beautiful and short at the same time. There are probably a lot of people who care about you and your family who love you...your missing out on the good parts of life everyday that you don't go get help. Those issues and feeling you have are very serious...don't ignore them.

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  • [email protected]
    11 years ago

    Neither can I

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  • lillypoppy
    11 years ago

    just do it!

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  • plum6
    11 years ago

    I don't think this is that unusual, I have periods where I am just not feeling like connecting and/or trying to put effort in keeping up appearances and putting energy in relationships. If everyone elses' shit seems dumb just focus on yourself for a while.

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  • Crazy-Curly-Hair
    11 years ago

    I feel ya humans are a pain in the fucking ass, I'm hoping for the zombies to come so I can kick ass without getting in trouble or nothing.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    I've felt this way before, but I don't think it's a normal way to feel. Perhaps, you should consider talking to a therapist?

    Good Luck.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Thank you, I will. :)

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